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Balancing Self-Reliance and Interdependence

rwh19april Ep.360 – Run With Horses Podcast – Balancing Self-Reliance and Interdependence
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Do you go it alone or do you walk through life with others? It’s not an either/ or proposition, it’s both! There are areas where you definitely have to pull you own weight but often, much more often than you may think, we are supposed to help each other through life. Today, we are thinking about self-reliance and interdependence for disciples of Jesus.
Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!
Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
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B. Overview
Scripture calls believers to cultivate personal accountability (self-reliance) while actively engaging in a community of faith (interdependence).
Key Themes:
Biblical foundations for self-reliance in areas like personal spiritual growth, work, and stewardship.
Scriptural mandates for living in community, bearing one another’s burdens, and using spiritual gifts for the common good.
C. Context
Emphasize believer’s individual responsibility before God.
Highlight the importance of local church fellowship as a way of fulfilling our mission together.
D. Today I want you to consider:
What does “self-reliance” mean in your personal walk with Christ?
How do you see interdependence playing a role in your local church or community?
II. Self-Reliance in the Christian Life
A. Definition and Biblical Context
Self-reliance: Cultivating personal responsibility in one’s faith, work, finances, and spiritual growth, recognizing that while God provides strength, He also calls us to be diligent stewards of our lives.
B. Passages on Self-Reliance
Proverbs 6:6-8 (NKJV):
“Go to the ant, you sluggard;Consider her ways, and be wise.Which having no guide, overseer, or ruler,Provideth her supplies in the summer,And gathers her food in the harvest.”
Encourage proactive effort and preparedness in everyday life.
In what areas of your life can you emulate the ant’s industriousness?
Galatians 6:4-5 (NKJV):
“But let each one examine his own work, and then he shall have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. For each one shall bear his own load.”
Highlight the importance of personal evaluation and responsibility.
How can you take ownership of your spiritual growth while avoiding pride?
Philippians 4:13 (NKJV):
“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
Emphasize that personal achievement is rooted in Christ’s strength working through us.
How does relying on Christ’s strength change your approach to personal challenges?
C. Practical Steps
Self-Examination: Encourage daily devotional practices and self-reflection.
How are you taking responsibility for your life now? What practical actions show that you are serious about your spiritual life and responsibilities before God?
Personal Responsibility: Discuss setting goals in prayer, work, and study.
Where do you need to be more proactive? Are the basics covered? Are you seeking out ways to intentionally pursue godliness in your life? How, Where, When? Is it on your calendar and in your budget?
Stewardship: Explore biblical principles of managing finances, time, and talents responsibly.
Do you recognize the accountability that you have before God in the decisions you make? What does that look like?
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III. Interdependence in the Body of Christ
A. Definition and Biblical Context
Interdependence: Recognizing that while believers are called to personal responsibility, they are also part of a larger, unified body where mutual support, accountability, and service are essential.
B. Passages on Interdependence
1 Corinthians 12:12-27 (NKJV):
“For as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of that one body, being many, are one body, so also is Christ...”
Illustrate how each believer has a unique role that contributes to the health of the whole body.
Which “spiritual gifts” do you see in your life that benefit the community, and how can you serve more effectively?
Where and how are you living out this ‘Body Life’ of the church? Sunday morning worship service is NOT enough. Are you intentionally seeking fellowship and investing in the life of your church family. Are you inviting them into your life?
Small groups, one on one meetings, microchurch gatherings in public and homes.
Galatians 6:2 (NKJV):
“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
Stress the call to support one another in times of difficulty.
How have you experienced God’s provision through the help of others? How can you extend that help?
Ephesians 4:15-16 (NKJV):
“But, speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ. From whom the whole body, joined and knit together by every joint with which it is equipped, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love.”
Emphasize mutual edification and the organic growth of the church as a family of believers.
In what ways can you contribute to the spiritual growth of your church family?
Intentionality is Key.
C. Application and Practical Steps
Fellowship and Community: Discuss the importance of small groups, church ministries, and accountability partnerships. Doesn’t happen accidently.
Serving Others: Outline practical opportunities for service in the local community and the global church. Local church, neighbor church, etc.
IV. Integrating Self-Reliance and Interdependence
Recognizing the Balance
Christians are called to be proactive and responsible stewards of their own lives (self-reliance) while also fully engaging in the support system provided by the Church (interdependence).
James 2:14-17 (NKJV):
“What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? … Thus faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.”
Faith must be expressed both individually and collectively.
How does your personal faith inspire you to serve the community, and in turn, how does community service strengthen your personal walk with Christ?
How do you maintain personal discipline while remaining open to community guidance?
“In what specific ways will you take responsibility for your personal growth this week, and how will you actively engage with your faith community?”
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Doctrine Today
Jesus and His Present Ministry
The Holy Spirit’s Role in Disciple Making.
Dispensational Baptist view of the End Times
Understanding Theology is Important
The Gospel and Ongoing Disciple Making
Church Role in Discerning God’s Will
Barriers to Disciple Making
1. Lack of Intentionality
Unclear Vision:Often, churches and individual believers may not have a clear, intentional vision or plan for disciple making. Without concrete goals, training, and accountability measures, disciple making can become an incidental outcome rather than a strategic priority.
Scriptural Neglect:Some ministries may focus heavily on evangelism while underemphasizing the lifelong process of nurturing, teaching, and mentoring new believers. This disconnect from the biblical mandate (e.g., Matthew 28:19-20) can lead to a superficial understanding of discipleship.
2. Cultural Individualism
Self-Reliance Over Community:Modern Western culture often emphasizes personal autonomy and self-reliance, which can contrast sharply with the biblical call to community (1 Corinthians 12:12-27). This individualism makes it more challenging to create environments where believers willingly submit to accountability, mentoring, and mutual growth.
Reluctance to Invest in Others:The desire for personal achievement and success may lead some to undervalue the long-term commitment required to disciple others, rather than focusing on immediate personal benefits or social status.
3. Time Constraints and Busyness
Competing Priorities:In today’s fast-paced society, individuals often struggle to balance work, family, and ministry responsibilities. This busyness can leave little room for the deep, personal interactions required for disciple making.
Over-Scheduled Lives:Constant digital engagement and overloaded schedules can lead to shallow relationships that lack the depth needed for transformative discipleship.
4. Lack of Effective Leadership and Training
Insufficient Leadership Development:Effective discipleship requires mentors who are themselves mature in their faith and skilled in relational dynamics. A shortage of trained leaders who can intentionally mentor others is a significant barrier.
Inadequate Resources:Churches may not invest adequately in training programs or create robust systems for leadership development, resulting in missed opportunities to equip believers for disciple making.
5. Digital Distractions and Superficial Engagement
Impact of Technology:While digital media offers innovative outreach tools, the overreliance on online interactions can lead to more shallow, transactional relationships that lack the depth and accountability found in face-to-face mentoring.
Social Media Culture:Constant engagement with social media may foster a culture of immediacy and quick approval, which can detract from the slow, formative process of true disciple making.
6. Fear of Judgment and Vulnerability
Relational Barriers:Discipleship involves vulnerability and accountability. Many believers may be reluctant to share their struggles or admit weaknesses due to the fear of judgment or rejection by peers.
Cultural Stigma:In both church settings and the broader society, there can be stigma associated with showing vulnerability, leading individuals to hide their need for growth rather than seeking relational support.
7. Theological Misunderstandings
Misconceptions About Grace and Works:Some may mistakenly view discipleship as a checklist of rules or a set of actions rather than a transformative process fueled by the Holy Spirit. This can lead to legalism on one end or laxity on the other.
Lack of Depth:Without a robust, well-balanced teaching on both grace and discipline, believers can misunderstand the essence of discipleship, which involves both receiving God’s unmerited favor and engaging in the process of sanctification.
8. Resource Limitations and Institutional Challenges
Financial and Infrastructural Constraints:Smaller churches or those in economically challenged areas might lack the resources to create comprehensive discipleship programs. Budget constraints, limited venues for small groups, or lack of access to quality teaching materials can impact effectiveness.
Institutional Resistance:Sometimes, long-standing institutional practices can resist change, making it difficult to adapt or innovate new methods for effective disciple making.
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As we follow Jesus there is a need to do our part and help others along the way. Engaging in the life of the church family often benefits you more than you expect, in ways that you don’t expect. The Body of Christ, when operating as it should helps you to grow and gives you opportunities to invest in helping others to grow. Your gifts are needed just as you need the gifts of others.
 
– “Thank you for listening today!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
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How's Your Self-Discipline?

rwh12april Ep.359 – Run With Horses Podcast – How's Your Self-Discipline?
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Author pages with links to all books on Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BCSDDVLB – James Norman Smith
https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BMGW51FW – Susan Jane Smith
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Following Jesus was never meant to be easy. Self-discipline is a key component of a Christian's walk with Christ, especially for those who are striving to be obedient to His call to be disciple makers. Self-discipline - today we look at what it is and what it matters.
Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!
Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
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Biblical theology, emphasizes holiness, and sanctification. Self-discipline is an essential piece of the puzzle for growing your faith, honoring God, and becoming more like Christ.
1. Self-Discipline is Essential for Spiritual Growth
The Bible teaches that following Jesus involves ongoing transformation. Self-discipline enables a Christian to maintain focus on spiritual growth and maturity. This growth is not passive; it requires intentional effort to discipline oneself in the faith.
1 Corinthians 9:24-27 (NKJV): “Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may obtain it. And everyone who competes for the prize is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a perishable crown, but we for an imperishable crown. Therefore I run thus: not with uncertainty. Thus I fight: not as one who beats the air. But I discipline my body and bring it into subjection, lest, when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified.”
In this passage, Paul emphasizes the importance of self-discipline in the Christian life. Like an athlete training for a race, the believer must discipline their body and actions to ensure they live a life pleasing to God. This passage also highlights that discipline is necessary for not only spiritual progress but also for preventing spiritual failure.
2. Self-Discipline in Fleeing Sin and Pursuing Holiness
Self-discipline is crucial for resisting temptation and living a holy life. Christians are called to reject sin and live in a way that honors God, and this requires discipline in thoughts, words, and actions.
1 Timothy 4:7-8 (NKJV): “But reject profane and old wives’ fables, and exercise yourself toward godliness. For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come.”
Paul urges Timothy to “exercise” toward godliness, which speaks to the discipline of growing in spiritual maturity. This is contrasted with physical exercise, which has limited benefits, while spiritual discipline has eternal value.
Titus 2:11-12 (NKJV): “For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men, teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly in the present age.”
The grace of God teaches the believer to deny sinful desires and live disciplined lives, demonstrating the power of grace in enabling self-control.
3. Self-Discipline in the Use of Time and Resources
Christians are called to be stewards of their time, talents, and resources. Practicing self-discipline helps them use these gifts in a way that honors God and furthers His kingdom.
Ephesians 5:15-16 (NKJV): “See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil.”
This passage speaks to the importance of using time wisely. Self-discipline involves making choices that align with God’s will, ensuring that the believer is living for eternal purposes rather than temporary desires.
4. Self-Discipline in Prayer and Bible Study
A disciplined prayer life and consistent study of Scripture are vital for growth in the faith. Christians must intentionally set aside time to communicate with God and immerse themselves in His Word.
Matthew 26:41 (NKJV): “Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.”
Jesus speaks to the importance of watchfulness and prayer to avoid falling into temptation. Self-discipline in maintaining a life of prayer is necessary for strength against sin.
2 Timothy 2:15 (NKJV): “Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.”
This emphasizes the discipline required in studying Scripture. A believer who wants to rightly divide the Word must be diligent and disciplined in their study.
5. Self-Discipline in Following Jesus' Example
Lastly, the ultimate example of self-discipline is Jesus Himself. He lived a life of perfect self-discipline, obeying the Father’s will even to the point of death on the cross.
Luke 9:23 (NKJV): “Then He said to them all, ‘If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.’”
To follow Jesus is to practice daily self-discipline, denying one's own desires and submitting to the will of God.
Conclusion
For anyone who is striving to follow Jesus, self-discipline is not merely about willpower, but it is a response to God's grace and a necessary aspect of sanctification. It requires a commitment to spiritual practices, a resistance to temptation, and an ongoing pursuit of holiness. Through self-discipline, believers not only grow in Christ-likeness but also glorify God in all aspects of their lives.
Self-discipline is both a duty and a privilege, empowered by the Holy Spirit and essential to the believer's walk with Christ. It is through discipline that Christians can live according to God's Word and fulfill their calling to be holy and set apart for His purposes.
 
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Developing self-discipline as a follower of Jesus requires intentional effort and commitment. A commitment to the spiritual disciplines can be a big part of the process of growing as a follower of Jesus. These disciplines are practices that help a believer grow in their relationship with God, resist temptation, and align their lives more closely with His will. In the context of following Jesus, self-discipline is rooted in God's grace but also requires the active participation of the believer in cultivating habits that foster spiritual growth. The spiritual disciplines are habits that help us keep our focus. Prayer, Bible reading, meditation and study Silence, Solitude, Community, Fasting. These are habits that help you build a strong spiritual life. We have talked about them before and will come back to them again but for now, Know that studying and practicing the spiritual disciplines should be a part of your spiritual life.
 
Developing personal self-discipline is a key aspect of spiritual growth and daily life, especially for a Christian who is striving to follow Jesus. While spiritual disciplines like prayer, Bible study, and worship are vital, personal self-discipline in everyday activities also plays a significant role in the overall process. Here are practical steps that can help someone develop or increase their personal self-discipline:
1. Set Clear Goals and Priorities
Having clear goals allows you to stay focused and motivated. Self-discipline thrives when you have a sense of purpose. Start by determining what is most important to you, both in your spiritual life and personal life.
Actionable Step: Write down your goals—spiritual, personal, and professional—and prioritize them. Break them down into smaller, achievable tasks. For example, if your goal is to read through the Bible in a year, break it into daily reading plans.
2. Create a Routine or Schedule
A structured routine helps build self-discipline because it instills consistency. When you have a set schedule, you're less likely to be distracted by fleeting desires or emotions.
Actionable Step: Create a daily or weekly schedule that includes time for prayer, Bible study, work, exercise, meals, and sleep. Setting fixed times for these activities helps cultivate habits and limits procrastination. NEXT ACTION. DO IT.
Proverbs 12:1 (NKJV): “Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, But he who hates correction is stupid.”A disciplined schedule allows you to grow in knowledge and wisdom, as it gives you time to learn and apply godly principles.
3. Develop Healthy Habits
Small, healthy habits can lead to big changes. Good habits can gradually transform your life and build the foundation for self-discipline. These habits can include morning routines, exercise, and eating habits. Whole Life stewardship requires WHOLE LIFE DISCIPLINE.
Actionable Step: Start by adopting one healthy habit at a time, such as drinking water in the morning, avoiding social media first thing, or exercising regularly. Focus on consistency, and gradually build other habits on top of that.
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (NKJV): “Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.”Taking care of your body through healthy habits is a way to honor God and develop discipline.
4. Practice Accountability
Accountability is a powerful tool in developing self-discipline. When you know someone is holding you accountable, it increases your motivation and helps you stay on track. You aren’t in this alone.
Actionable Step: Find an accountability partner or a group that shares your spiritual goals. This could be a prayer partner, a mentor, or a small group from your church. Regular check-ins and mutual encouragement can strengthen your resolve.
Proverbs 27:17 (NKJV): “As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.”Accountability helps keep you on the path of discipline and encourages you to grow together with others.
5. Learn to Say No
Self-discipline often involves making hard choices and learning to say no to things that are not aligned with your goals or that hinder your progress. This applies to both time management and spiritual focus. You must be clear on God’s calling for you life and let nothing hinder your pursuit of Him and His mission.
Actionable Step: Practice saying no to distractions, whether it's binge-watching TV, spending excessive time on social media, or even good things that might prevent you from focusing on what matters most, like spending time with God or with family.
Matthew 5:37 (NKJV): “But let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’ For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.”Learning to say no when necessary is part of being disciplined, especially when it comes to guarding your time and energy.
6. Eliminate Distractions
Distractions are one of the biggest barriers to self-discipline. It’s difficult to stay focused when you're surrounded by temptations or interruptions. By intentionally reducing distractions, you can stay on task and make better use of your time. Remember Mary and Martha. There is one thing you need.
Actionable Step: Identify areas of your life where you tend to get distracted—such as your phone, the internet, or unproductive relationships—and take steps to minimize those distractions. For instance, you could put your phone in another room while reading your Bible or studying.
Matthew 6:6 (NKJV): “But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.”Finding a quiet, distraction-free space for prayer or study is essential in maintaining self-discipline.
7. Take Breaks and Rest
Self-discipline doesn’t mean working yourself to exhaustion. Taking breaks is important for mental and physical well-being. Rest allows you to recharge and maintain focus over time.
Actionable Step: Schedule regular breaks throughout the day to rest and recharge. Ensure that you also take time off from work and other obligations to rest, whether it’s a weekly Sabbath, a day off, or short breaks during the day.
Exodus 20:8-10 (NKJV): “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord your God. In it you shall do no work...”Resting is essential for spiritual, emotional, and physical renewal, and it’s a discipline that promotes a balanced life.
8. Practice Self-Control in Small Things
Building self-discipline in small areas of life can create a ripple effect that leads to greater self-control in bigger things. Start with simple acts of self-restraint, and work up to more challenging areas.
Actionable Step: Practice self-control by limiting small indulgences, such as sweets, caffeine, or unnecessary spending. This builds the muscle of self-discipline, which will help in more significant areas like temptation or long-term goals.
Galatians 5:22-23 (NKJV): “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.”Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit that grows as we practice it in daily life.
9. Celebrate Small Wins
It’s easy to become discouraged if you’re only focused on long-term results. Acknowledge and celebrate small victories along the way to stay motivated.
Actionable Step: When you accomplish a goal or stick to a discipline for a certain period, reward yourself with something meaningful—whether it’s a small treat, a break, or a time of reflection and gratitude.
1 Corinthians 9:24 (NKJV): “Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may obtain it.”Recognizing progress along the way encourages perseverance and motivates you to continue toward your final goal.
10. Seek God’s Help and Grace
Ultimately, self-discipline is not about relying solely on your strength, but on God's grace. Ask the Lord to help you develop discipline, giving you the strength to overcome weaknesses and the wisdom to prioritize what matters most.
Philippians 4:13 (NKJV): “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”Depend on God’s strength to help you grow in discipline, especially when things seem too difficult.
Conclusion:
Developing self-discipline is a process that requires intentional action and reliance on God’s grace. By setting clear goals, creating a structured routine, developing healthy habits, and seeking accountability, you can grow in self-discipline and make progress in your personal and spiritual life. Keep focusing on small, practical steps while relying on God's strength and guidance through it all.
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Doctrine Today
 
Church Role in Discerning God’s Will
 
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How are you doing at keeping those hard tasks on your schedule? Doing the right thing is seldom easy and it often takes more effort that we would like. But it is worth it do be disciplined and maintain our focus. When you fail, start over, persistence is a big part of discipline!
– “Thank you for listening today!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
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Emotional Intelligence for Disciple Makers

Ep.358 – Run With Horses Podcast – Emotional Intelligence for Disciple Makers
Podcast: rwh.podbean.comWebsite: www.runwithhorses.netYoutube: https://youtube.com/@rwhpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/RWHpodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rwh_podcastTwitter: https://twitter.com/RWH_podcast
Author pages with links to all books on Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BCSDDVLB – James Norman Smith
https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BMGW51FW – Susan Jane Smith
Part 1:Emotional Intelligence for Disciple Makers
1. Introduction
Introduce the concept of Emotional Intelligence (EI) and its relevance in the Christian life, particularly in leadership and discipleship.
2. What is Emotional Intelligence?
Definition of Emotional Intelligence:Emotional Intelligence is the ability to recognize, understand, and manage our own emotions and the emotions of others. It involves four key components:
Self-awareness: Recognizing one's emotions and their impact.
Self-control: Managing and controlling one's emotional responses.
Empathy: Understanding the emotions of others and responding appropriately.
Compassion: The desire to help
Social skills: Building relationships and communicating effectively.
Example:
Self-awareness: A disciple maker who can recognize their frustration with a fellow believer and chooses to address it in a godly manner rather than reacting impulsively.
Empathy: Listening attentively to someone in pain, offering comfort as Christ would, instead of offering quick solutions or judgments.
Biblical Example of Emotional Intelligence:
Jesus’ Emotional Intelligence: Jesus exhibited all four aspects of EI.
Self-awareness and Self-regulation: In Mark 14:34–36, Jesus shows emotional vulnerability, yet chooses God's will over His feelings.
Mark 14: 32
Empathy, Compassion and Social Skills: Jesus empathized with people, showing compassion. In John 11:33–36, He wept with Mary and Martha at the death of Lazarus, showing deep emotional connection and compassion.
3. Why is Emotional Intelligence Important for Christians?
Discipleship and Emotional Intelligence:
Emotional intelligence helps disciple makers understand the emotional state and needs of others. Effective disciple making requires patience, compassion, and the ability to manage one's own emotions.
Biblical Foundation:
Ephesians 4:2-3 –
This passage emphasizes emotional control (lowliness, gentleness) and empathy (bearing with one another).
Developing Relationships with Others: Jesus’ ministry was deeply relational, and He connected emotionally with people.
Matthew 9:36 –
Jesus ability to understand and connect was key to His effective ministry and discipleship.
Practical Application for the Church:
Proverbs 15:1 –
Galatians 6:2 –
4. Thinking Deeply
Reflect on:
A time when they experienced emotional stress in ministry or discipleship.
How emotional intelligence (or lack thereof) impacted the outcome.
 
 
Part 2: Developing Emotional Intelligence for Disciple Makers
1. Recap
Briefly recap the key points
2. Deep Dive: How to Develop Emotional Intelligence
Self-awareness and Self-control:
James 1:19 –
Practice slowing down our reactions and reflecting before responding. Teach that self-awareness is about recognizing triggers and the emotions behind them.
Learn to listen WELL.
Psalm 139:23-24 –
Develop self-awareness through prayer, asking God to reveal any emotional blind spots.
Self-control through Scripture:
Galatians 5:22-23 –
Spiritual growth is the foundation of developing emotional intelligence.
These virtues align with the emotional self-control we need as Christians. Developing the fruit of the Spirit is key to emotional stability.
Empathy:
Romans 12:15 –
Empathy requires actively engaging with others’ emotions, whether in joy or sorrow.
Philippians 2:4 –
Developing empathy requires intentionality—seeing and caring about others deeply.
Pause and ask yourself about the emotional state of other people. Consider WHY they feel they way they do. Seek Understanding.
Social Skills:
Colossians 3:12-14 –
Social skills are rooted in humility and kindness, and effective communication flows out of a heart that is filled with love. Listen to understand!
Spend time with people. Look for opportunities to develop deep and lasting relationships. Put their interests first!
Practical Strategies for Developing EI:
Daily Reflection and Prayer: Incorporate a time of self-reflection each day to assess your emotional responses and ask the Holy Spirit for help.
Consider journaling your thoughts and addressing the way you responded to people throughout the day. Ask yourself if you could have responded in a way that better exhibits the fruit of the spirit.
Active Listening: Practice listening without responding immediately, making sure to validate the emotions of others. Learn to ask clarifying questions.
Accountability Partnerships: Form small groups or one-on-one accountability relationships to help one another grow in emotional maturity.
 
 
Doctrine of the Month
 
The Gospel and Ongoing Disciple Making
 
– “Thank you for listening today!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
 

How's Your Confidence?

rwh29march -Ep.357 – Run With Horses Podcast – A Confident Disciple of Jesus
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Confidence
 
I. Intro
- A. Definition of Confidence
- Confidence as trust or belief in God's work through us, not in our own abilities.
 
- B. Importance of Confidence for a Follower of Jesus
- Empowers boldness in sharing the gospel and teaching God’s Word.
- Provides strength to guide others in their spiritual growth.
 
II. The Foundation of Confidence: Trusting in God’s Strength
- A. Confidence in God’s Power, Not Ourselves
- Philippians 4:13
2 Corinthians 3:5
 
- B. The Role of the Holy Spirit
Acts 1:8
 
III. Confidence in the Word of God: The Source of Authority
- A. The Transformative Power of God’s Word
Isaiah 55:11
- B. Trusting God’s Promises in Discipleship
Matthew 28:18-20
 
2 Timothy 2:2
IV. Confidence in the Face of Challenges
- A. Overcoming Trials with God’s Confidence
Romans 8:37
 
- B. Assurance of God’s Presence and Support
Joshua 1:9
Matthew 28:20
 
V. Confidence in God’s Plan: Trusting in His Sovereignty
- A. Belief in God’s Control and Purpose
Romans 8:28
- B. Confidence in Discipleship Outcomes
1 Corinthians 3:6-7
 
VI. Confidence in Our Identity in Christ
- A. Knowing Our Identity in Christ
Ephesians 2:10
 
- B. Confidence in Our Calling as Disciple Makers
2 Corinthians 5:20
1 Peter 2:9
Developing Confidence
 
I. Building Confidence in God
 
A. Strengthening Your Relationship Through Prayer
 
- Regular prayer as a means to invite God into daily life.
 
- Philippians 4:6-7
- 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
 
B. Studying the Bible
 
- Deepening understanding of God's character and promises.
 
- 2 Timothy 3:16-17
 
- Psalm 119:105
 
C. Reflecting on Past Experiences
 
- Recognizing God’s past provisions to build future confidence.
 
- Deuteronomy 8:2
 
- Psalm 77:11-12
 
D. Surrounding Yourself with a Supportive Community
 
- Sharing experiences and receiving encouragement from others.
 
- Hebrews 10:24-25
 
- Proverbs 27:17
 
E. Trusting God's Timing
 
- Learning to trust in God’s perfect plan.
 
- Ecclesiastes 3:1
 
- Isaiah 40:31
 
F. Worship and Praise
 
- Focusing on God’s greatness and faithfulness.
 
- Psalm 95:1-2: "Oh come, let us sing to the Lord! Let us shout joyfully to the Rock of our salvation. Let us come before His presence with thanksgiving; Let us shout joyfully to Him with psalms."
 
- Psalm 100:4-5
 
G. Living Out Your Faith
 
- Acting on God’s Word to strengthen faith.
 
- James 1:22
 
- Matthew 5:16
 
H. Learning from the Faith of Others
 
- Drawing inspiration from biblical stories and testimonies of believers.
 
- Hebrews 12:1
 
- Romans 15:4
 
These verses can serve as a foundation for building confidence in God through various aspects of faith and practice.
 
Find confidence in God’s power, promises, and presence.
 
2 Timothy 1:7
 
 
Doctrine of the Month
Community and the Spiritual Growth of a Christian
 
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
 

How well do you know yourself?

rwh22march -Ep.356 – Run With Horses Podcast – How well do you know yourself?
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What is self-awareness? According to the Oxford Dictionary:
conscious knowledge of one's own character, feelings, motives, and desires.
Character:
Feelings:
Motives:
Desires:
Have you ever stopped to truly reflect on how you see yourself and how that compares to how God sees you?
Self-awareness is vital for spiritual growth and understanding God’s will for our lives. It’s actually pretty important as a human traveling through life with other humans! There is often a tension between how we see ourselves, how others see us and how God sees us.
II. What is Self-Awareness from a Biblical Worldview?
Definition of Self-Awareness:
The ability to see and acknowledge one’s thoughts, feelings, actions, and motivations in the light of God’s truth.
Understanding our identity in Christ, our strengths, weaknesses, and the call God has on our lives.
Scriptural Foundation:
Psalm 139:23-24:
 
Romans 12:3:
Self-awareness requires humility, recognizing both our value in Christ and the need for personal growth. We often focus on how we compare to those around us rather than to Jesus and who He calls us to be. Pride is easy when we look at others, humility is easy when we focus on Jesus.
III. How Can We Become More Self-Aware?
Daily Reflection and Prayer:
James 1:5:
 
Engage with Scripture:
Hebrews 4:12:
 
Seek Accountability and Fellowship:
Proverbs 27:17:
 
Practicing Confession and Repentance:
1 John 1:9:
IV. Why Is Self-Awareness Important According to Scripture?
For Personal Growth in Christlikeness:
2 Corinthians 13:5:
 
Philippians 3:12-14:
 
For Serving Others with Humility:
Philippians 2:3-4:
 
For Glorifying God:
1 Corinthians 10:31
Doctrine of the Month
 
Understanding Theology, is crucial for discipleship because it shapes how we relate to God and others, guiding our lives and actions towards imitating Christ.
 
May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
 

Live Like Eternity Matters

Ep.355 – Run With Horses Podcast – Live Like Eternity Matters
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1.The Reality of Eternity
The Promise of Eternal Life
Why Eternity Matters
2. Eternal Perspective: Shaping Our View of Life
Eternal Perspective on Temporal Life
Living with an Eternal Purpose
3. Life in Light of Eternity: Practical Application
Prioritizing God's Kingdom Over Earthly Concerns
Investing in the Eternal: The Rewards of Faithful Service
Living a Holy Life in View of Eternity
4. Eternal Relationships: Sharing the Gospel and Building God's Kingdom
The Call to Evangelize and Make Disciples
Investing in People for Eternal Impact
5. Eternal Hope: Encouragement for Perseverance
The Assurance of Eternal Life
The Comfort of the Future Life
6. Living in Hope and Obedience
A Call to Live in View of Eternity
The Motivation to Live for Christ Today
7. Eternal Life Changes Everything
Every moment counts in light of eternity. Make choices that reflect the reality of eternal life, live with purpose, share the gospel, and find your hope in God’s promises. Evaluate their life regularly, look to live in ways that honor God and reflect His eternal purposes.
8.
Doctrine Focus
End Times

Resisting Temptation

rwh08march -Ep.354 – Run With Horses Podcast – Resisting Temptation
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Resisting Temptation: A Biblical Approach to Overcoming Sin
How Temptation Works
Temptation works through a process that often involves desire, opportunity, and choice. It’s important to understand how it operates in order to resist it effectively. Below is a breakdown of how temptation works, from a Biblical perspective:
1. Temptation Begins with Desire
2. Temptation Entices
3. Temptation Presents a Choice
4. Temptation Leads to Sin
5. Temptation’s Full Outcome: Death and Destruction
How Temptation Works in Our Lives
In summary, temptation works through the following stages:
Desire: Temptation begins with internal cravings or desires for things outside of God's will.
Enticement: Temptation presents those desires as appealing and promises fulfillment.
Choice: The individual faces a decision on whether to act on the desire or to resist it.
Sin: Yielding to temptation results in sin and disobedience to God.
Consequences: The end result of sin is death and separation from God.
Prayer: Seeking God’s Strength
Scripture: Meditating on God’s Word
Accountability: Strengthening Each Other
Avoiding Triggers: Preventing Temptation
The Holy Spirit: Power to Overcome Temptation
Fasting: Strengthening the Spirit
Focusing on Eternal Rewards
Doctrine of the Month
The Holy Spirit’s Role in Disciple Making.

Personal Spring Cleaning

rwh01march -Ep.353 – Run With Horses Podcast –Personal Spring Cleaning
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A "spring cleaning" for your life is a fantastic way to reset and refresh your routine, mindset, and environment. Where do most people begin and how can we make that a little more intentional as a disciple of Jesus? Here are some thoughts:
1. Declutter Your Space:
This is a reoccurring theme for many of us. The things we surround ourselves with can eventually control us. Take charge and evaluate everything in light of eternity and it’s usefulness as a follower of Jesus.
 
2. Revamp Your Routine:
Building and maintaining healthy habits is a large part of staying consistent in your spiritual life. What habits do you have, What habits do you need to develop?
 
3. Refresh Your Digital Life:
Reduce and remove digital distractions.. Today’s screen focused world can be a hindrance to an authentic relationship with Jesus. Evaluate your screen time and use it wisely.
 
4. Review Finances:
Strive to be a good steward of your finances.
 
5. Assess Personal Goals:
What is the big picture of what God is doing in your life? How is He growing you and what is He challenging you to become? Compare your goals with His goals for you!
 
6. Invest in Health:
Finances aren’t the only place that we need to be good stewards! Your health matters. Are you taking care of the level of health that God has given you?
 
7. Reconnect with Relationships:
Relationships are a big part of our spiritual life. We need relationships with others and they need us. Be intentional and keep Jesus at the center of all of your relationships.
 
 
8. Learn Something New:
Don’t stagnate physically, mentally or spiritually. Read good books on topics that will help you grow. The spiritual disciplines are always a place you can invest and reap rewards.
 
9. Cleanse Your Mind:
Romans 12:1-2 Renew your mind.
Maintain time in God’s Word and really spend some time meditating on it, asking God to make His thoughts your thoughts.
 
10. Physical Clean-Up:
You surrounds can really affect your emotional and mental state which impacts your spiritual life. Spend some time cleaning up your space physically to help you focus spiritually.
 
 
You can do a personal spiritual evaluation by reflecting on key principles and practices found in Scripture. This evaluation is not about perfection, but about growth in faith, love, and obedience to God. Here’s a step-by-step guide for conducting a spiritual evaluation:
1. Reflect on Personal Relationship with God
Prayer and Devotion: Evaluate how consistent and sincere your personal time with God is. Are you seeking to commune with Him daily in prayer and through His Word? (Matthew 6:6, James 4:8) Do you have a consistent time or do you need to plan one?
Heart Check: Ask yourself: Do you truly desire to know God more deeply, or have other distractions and idols taken His place? (Deuteronomy 6:5, Matthew 22:37)
2. Evaluate Your Relationship with the Word of God
Bible Reading and Study: How regularly are you engaging with the Scriptures? Are you reading to grow, to learn, and to obey, or simply out of obligation? (Psalm 119:11, 2 Timothy 3:16-17) Are you consistently reading through Scripture? NT every year as a beginning goal.
Obedience to the Word: Do you apply God’s Word to your life? Is your obedience rooted in love for Christ and a desire to honor Him? (John 14:15, James 1:22)
3. Assess Your Life of Repentance and Confession
Confession and Repentance: Are you regularly confessing sins and repenting? Acknowledge areas where sin has a hold and work on turning away from them. (1 John 1:9, Romans 12:1-2)
Humility and Accountability: Are you humble enough to admit areas where you need growth, and do you have accountability in your life? (Proverbs 27:17, James 5:16)
4. Examine Your Love for Others
Love for Others: Do you love others as Christ has loved you? Evaluate your relationships with family, friends, and fellow believers. (John 13:34-35, 1 John 4:7-21) Are you meeting new people regularly?
Forgiveness and Grace: Are you quick to forgive and show grace, or do you harbor bitterness or unforgiveness? (Ephesians 4:32, Matthew 18:21-22) Are YOU the center of your relationships or is Jesus?
5. Reflect on Your Role in the Body of Christ
Service and Ministry: Are you actively serving others in the church and in your community? God has gifted each believer for the building up of His body. (1 Corinthians 12:4-7, Ephesians 4:11-16) Where are you using your gifts?
Fellowship: Do you prioritize fellowship with other believers? Being a part of the body of Christ means engaging with the community of believers, not just individually. (Hebrews 10:24-25, Acts 2:42-47)
6. Assess Your Personal Witness and Evangelism
Sharing the Gospel: Are you actively sharing your faith and seeking opportunities to tell others about Christ? Evaluate your willingness to be a light in the world. (Matthew 28:18-20, Acts 1:8)
Living as a Witness: Is your life reflecting the character of Christ to those around you? Are others able to see Christ in your actions and attitude? (Matthew 5:14-16, 1 Peter 3:15)
7. Check Your Spiritual Fruit
Fruit of the Spirit: How are you reflecting the fruit of the Spirit in your life? (Galatians 5:22-23) Are you putting effort into your spiritual growth? How?
Spiritual Growth: Do you see areas where God has grown you, but also areas where you need to mature? (2 Peter 3:18, Philippians 1:9-11)
8. Evaluate Your Priorities and Stewardship
Time and Resources: How are you managing your time, talents, and treasures? Are your priorities in line with God’s kingdom purposes? (Matthew 6:33, 1 Corinthians 10:31)
Generosity and Stewardship: Are you generous with what God has entrusted to you, not only in finances but also in your time and abilities? (2 Corinthians 9:6-8, Luke 6:38)
9. Seek the Holy Spirit’s Conviction and Guidance
Holy Spirit’s Role: Invite the Holy Spirit to search your heart, convict you of any unconfessed sin, and guide you into truth. Trust in the Spirit’s work to help you grow in Christ-likeness. (Psalm 139:23-24, John 16:13)
Response to Conviction: How do you respond when the Holy Spirit convicts you? Are you willing to obey, even when it is difficult? (Romans 8:14, Galatians 5:16-18)
10. Set Goals for Spiritual Growth
Action Plan: Based on your evaluation, set specific, measurable, attainable goals for your spiritual growth. These could involve areas of Bible study, prayer, service, or outreach.
Accountability: Consider seeking an accountability partner or mentor who can help you stay focused on your growth and provide support. (Proverbs 27:17, Galatians 6:1-2)

What do you do when you feel like quitting?

24_0125 -Ep.352 – Run With Horses Podcast – When You Feel Like Quitting
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When You Feel Like Quitting what do you do. Everyone gets beat down occasionally. When you do, how do you handle it?
Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is both incredibly simple and potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to live intentionally and on His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!
Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
Dealing with Disappointment and Discouragement Biblically
- Or, What to do when you fell like quitting!
I. The Reality of Disappointment and Discouragement
Opening Quote: “When you feel like quitting, remember why you started.”
Key Idea: Everyone faces disappointment and discouragement at some point, whether in ministry, relationships, or personal struggles. However, God’s Word gives us perspective on how to face these moments with faith and perseverance.
II. Acknowledge the Reality of Disappointment
Scripture Reference: Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, And saves such as have a contrite spirit.”
Disappointment is not something we should deny or try to avoid. It’s a reality of life, but God is close to the brokenhearted. He doesn’t leave us in our despair.
No one’s life goes like they expect or really want it to. Pain and suffering are a reality.
Example: David – In many of his psalms, David expressed deep feelings of despair and discouragement, but he also demonstrated turning to God in those times (e.g., Psalm 42).
 
 
III. Recognizing the Call to Persevere
Scripture Reference: Galatians 6:9 – “And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.”
In the midst of discouragement, we must remind ourselves that God’s promises are true. We may not see the fruit immediately, but the reward is coming if we remain faithful.
Example: Paul – Despite constant opposition, Paul continued in his ministry, reminding others to press on despite the trials (2 Corinthians 4:6-10).
IV. Recalling the Purpose Behind Our Journey
Scripture Reference: Philippians 3:13-14 – “Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”
The Apostle Paul, despite his challenges and struggles, kept his eyes on the prize—the call of God in Christ Jesus. Our purpose in Christ should be the motivation to keep going.
Example: Moses – Leading the Israelites out of Egypt was a long and challenging journey, but Moses remained focused on the ultimate promise of the land of Canaan (Hebrews 11:24-26).
V. God’s Faithfulness in Our Struggles
Scripture Reference: Isaiah 41:10 – “Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.”
God’s faithfulness never wavers. Even in moments of discouragement, we are reminded that He is with us, strengthening and helping us through the journey.
Example: Elijah – After his great victory on Mount Carmel, Elijah faced deep discouragement and wanted to quit. Yet God met him where he was and reassured him that He was still at work (1 Kings 19:1-18).
VI. Trusting God’s Timing and Plan
Scripture Reference: Romans 8:28 – “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.”
It’s easy to feel discouraged when the timing doesn’t seem right. But we can trust that God’s timing is perfect, and He is working everything for our good in His sovereign plan.
Example: Joseph – Joseph’s journey was filled with disappointment and discouragement (betrayal, false accusations, imprisonment), yet God was with him, working through his circumstances for a greater purpose (Genesis 50:19-20).
VII. Focusing on Our Relationship with Jesus
Scripture Reference: Matthew 11:28-30 – “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
In our moments of discouragement, Jesus invites us to find rest in Him, knowing that He understands our struggles and that He is with us through them.
Example: The Disciples in the Storm – When the disciples were in the storm, Jesus was with them, and He calmed the storm. Jesus is with us in our storms (Matthew 14:22-33).
VIII. The Strength to Keep Going Comes from God’s Presence
Scripture Reference: 2 Corinthians 12:9 – “But He said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”
In our weaknesses, we are reminded that God’s grace and power are enough. It is through our weakness that His strength is made evident.
Example: Paul’s Thorn in the Flesh – Paul dealt with a persistent difficulty (the thorn in his flesh), but he learned to rely on God’s grace, which gave him strength to continue (2 Corinthians 12:7-10).
IX. Encouraging One Another in Disappointment
Scripture Reference: Hebrews 10:24-25 – “And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.”
Encouragement is a key part of walking through discouragement. God has placed us in community so that we can support one another and remind each other of the hope we have in Christ.
Example: Barnabas and Paul – Barnabas, known as the “Son of Encouragement,” helped Paul when others were fearful of him, reminding him of God’s calling and purpose in his life (Acts 9:26-27).
X. Conclusion: Pressing On with Hope in Christ
Scripture Reference: 2 Timothy 4:7-8 – “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Finally, there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to me on that Day, and not to me only but also to all who have loved His appearing.”
Paul’s words serve as a powerful reminder that despite all the struggles, the end of the journey is worth it. There is a crown of righteousness for those who press on, keeping their eyes on Jesus.
 
– “Thank you for listening today!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."

How Should We Then Live?

24_0125 -Ep.350 – Run With Horses Podcast – How Should We Then Live?
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Living with Eternity in Mind
2 Peter 3, speaks powerfully about the end of the world, the second coming of Christ, and how we should live knowing the judgement is coming. Do you think about how to live with the reality that one day this world will be destroyed and we will stand before God to give an account for our lives?
The Coming Judgment
[2 Peter 3:1-10]
Peter reminds us that God's judgment is not delayed; God is patient, wanting no one to perish but all to come to repentance (v. 9). The day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night, unexpected, and it will bring sudden destruction. And it is certain.
We see here that Peter emphasizes something we must remember: Just because God hasn't acted yet doesn’t mean He won’t. God’s timing is different from ours. We may think He’s slow, but He is actually giving us time to turn to Him.
How Should We Live in Light of the Coming Judgment?
[2 Peter 3:11-14]
In verses 11-14, Peter shifts the focus from the world’s end to our responsibility as Christians. Since all these things are going to be destroyed, Peter asks, ‘What manner of persons ought you to be in holy conduct and godliness?’ This is a profound question for us today. If we know that one day the world as we know it will end, and we will stand before God, how should we live in the here and now?
Living in Light of Eternity
Living with Hope and Patience
Pursuing Holiness
Being Ready for Christ’s Return
The Role of the Church in Living with Eternity in Mind
[2 Peter 3:15-16]
The church plays a crucial role in preparing believers for the coming judgment. We’re not just here to be entertained or to consume religious content. We are here to be equipped, to grow in godliness, to be His body at work on His mission in the world and to live with the constant awareness that Christ could return at any moment.
As members of the church, we need to encourage one another to stay focused on eternal truths. We need to challenge one another to live holy lives, to persevere in faith, and to continue spreading the gospel to those who don’t know Christ. There is no more important mission for us.
Practical Applications for Today
Prioritize What Lasts
Live with Urgency in Sharing the Gospel
Cultivate a Heart of Holiness
Serve Others in Light of the Coming Judgment
Live Peacefully and Blamelessly
The Holy Spirit Empowers Us for Service
 
1. The Holy Spirit Empowers Us to Be Witnesses of Jesus
2. The Holy Spirit Equips Us with Spiritual Gifts for Ministry
3. The Holy Spirit Guides Us in Discipling Others
4. The Holy Spirit Enables Us to Bear Fruit in Discipleship
5. The Holy Spirit Strengthens Us for the Work of Discipleship
Matthew 28:20 – “...and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age. Amen.”
The Holy Spirit is with us, empowering us to live out our calling to make disciples and bring others into the Kingdom of God.
 
– “Thank you for listening today! Giving Thanks should be a daily part of the life of every disciple of Jesus. We have so much to be thankful for, we just so easily are distracted by the details of life.Be intentional, be thankful!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."