Run With Horses

Our Words Matter

Ep.369 – Run With Horses Podcast –  Our Words MatterPodcast: rwh.podbean.comWebsite: www.runwithhorses.netYoutube:  https://youtube.com/@rwhpodcastFacebook:  https://www.facebook.com/RWHpodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rwh_podcastTwitter:  https://twitter.com/RWH_podcastAuthor pages with links to all books on Amazon.https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BCSDDVLB – James Norman Smithhttps://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BMGW51FW – Susan Jane Smith
1. Biblical Foundations for Communication
2. Communication as Discipleship 
3. Listening as a Spiritual Discipline
4. Bridging the Gap: Communicating Across Worldviews
5. Conflict, Correction, and Encouragement 
6. Digital Communication
7. One-on-One vs. Group Communication
8. Teaching vs. Talking
2. 1. Be Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak
 2. Speak the Truth in Love
 3. Use Open-Ended, Heart-Opening Questions
 4. Watch Your Nonverbal Communication
 5. Use Technology Intentionally
Doctrine Today - Biblical Humility

Building Trust in Relationships

rwh14june Ep.368 – Run With Horses Podcast –  Building TrustPodcast: rwh.podbean.comWebsite: www.runwithhorses.netYoutube:  https://youtube.com/@rwhpodcastFacebook:  https://www.facebook.com/RWHpodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rwh_podcastTwitter:  https://twitter.com/RWH_podcastAuthor pages with links to all books on Amazon.https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BCSDDVLB – James Norman Smithhttps://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BMGW51FW – Susan Jane Smith
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Relationships can be kind of fragile. Trust can be hard to build and easy to lose. Because our spiritual life depends so heavily on healthy relationships, it’s worth the effort to develop a strong foundation, Today we are thinking about Building Trust, Why and How.
Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
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1. Trust Begins with your Heart
2. Trust Is Built Through Love and Sacrificial Commitment
3. Trust Grows Through Consistent, Truthful Communication
4. Trust grows through Accountability and Transparency
5. Trust Must Be Repaired When Broken
6. Trust opens the door to Fruitful Discipleship
7. Our Trust in God Is the Foundation of Trust with Others
8. Trustworthiness Flows from Our Identity in Christ
9. We Are Trustworthy Because We Live for an Audience of One
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  Living It Out – Practical Encouragement for Building Trust
I. Start With Yourself: Build Trust by Being Trustworthy
II. Show Up and Stick Around: Trust Is Built Over Time
III. Be Vulnerable First: Lead with Transparency
IV. Practice Active Listening and Empathy
V. Keep Short Accounts: Repair Trust Quickly
**(5:00 – 1:00)** Doctrine Today
The Holiness of God and Disciple-Makers
**(1:00)** How are you doing at building strong healthy relationships? It takes work, but it’s worth it. Be a trustworthy friend and invest time in others. You will be better because of it.
– “Thank you for listening today! -If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.Don’t be discouraged by the challenges you face. Keep your eyes on Jesus and embrace the opportunity to grow through the trial. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."**(00:00)**

Honoring Others

rwh7june Ep.367 – Run With Horses Podcast –  Honoring othersPodcast: rwh.podbean.comWebsite: www.runwithhorses.netYoutube:  https://youtube.com/@rwhpodcastFacebook:  https://www.facebook.com/RWHpodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rwh_podcastTwitter:  https://twitter.com/RWH_podcastAuthor pages with links to all books on Amazon.https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BCSDDVLB – James Norman Smithhttps://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BMGW51FW – Susan Jane Smith
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At our core, most of us are selfish and really struggle to consider others and their spiritual life. But the call of a disciple of Jesus is a call to place a high value on everyone we meet. God challenges us to lay aside our own wants and desires and to really honor others. That’s the topic, and the challenge, for today.
Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
**(23:00 – 0:00)* *  PART 1Run With Horses is on the radio! If you are enjoying Run With Horses, would you let someone know? Contact the radio station or leave a review on your favorite app. We want to hear from you!
Honoring Others: The Mark of A Disciple
A good, basic definition of honor—especially in a biblical and discipleship context—is:
Honor is the act of recognizing and treating others with the dignity, value, and respect they deserve as image-bearers of God, regardless of their status or behavior.
To honor someone means to esteem them highly, to give weight to their worth, and to treat them in a way that reflects God’s view of them—not just your personal opinion.
1. The Biblical Command to Honor Others
🧾 Key Verse: • Romans 12:10 (NKJV)“Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another.”
Key Points: • Honoring others is not optional; it’s a command tied to Christian love. • “Giving preference” shows that honor involves humility and intentionality.
2. Honoring Begins with the Heart of Christ
🧾 Key Verses: • Philippians 2:3–5 (NKJV)“Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others. Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus…”
Key Points: • Jesus modeled humility by honoring those beneath Him socially and spiritually. • To honor others is to adopt the mindset of Christ.
3. Honoring Others Reflects God’s Character
🧾 Key Verse: • 1 Peter 2:17 (NKJV)“Honor all people. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king.”
Key Points: • Honor is rooted in the Imago Dei—all people are made in God’s image. • Disciples honor others not because of their merit but because of God’s worth.
4. Honoring Authority—Even When It’s Hard
🧾 Key Verse: • Romans 13:1–2 (NKJV)“Let every soul be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and the authorities that exist are appointed by God.”
Key Points: • Honoring others includes honoring civil and church authorities. • It’s a test of obedience to God’s sovereignty.
5. Honor in the Home and Church
🧾 Honor in the Family: • Ephesians 6:2 (NKJV)“Honor your father and mother,” which is the first commandment with promise…”
🧾 Honor in the Church: • 1 Timothy 5:17 (NKJV)“Let the elders who rule well be counted worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in the word and doctrine.”
Key Points: • Honor starts in the home and extends to the household of faith. • Honoring leaders strengthens unity and gospel witness.
6. Honor and Disciple-Making
🧾 Key Verse: • John 13:34–35 (NKJV)“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”
Key Points: • Honor is a visible expression of love. • Honoring others is a form of discipleship and a witness to the world.
7. Reward for Honoring Others
🧾 Key Verse: • Matthew 10:41–42 (NKJV)“He who receives a prophet in the name of a prophet shall receive a prophet’s reward… And whoever gives one of these little ones only a cup of cold water… shall by no means lose his reward.”
Key Points: • God sees every act of honor, even the smallest. • Honoring others aligns us with God’s economy of grace and reward.
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Excellent direction. Focusing on the practical side of honoring others will ground your lecture in real-life application, which is essential for disciple-makers.
Let’s divide the second half of your lecture into two practical sections:
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🏛️ Section 1: Honoring People Within the Church
Honoring fellow believers builds unity, discipleship relationships, and displays Christ’s love within the Body.
✅ 1. Serve One Another Humbly
🧾 Galatians 5:13 (NKJV)
“For you, brethren, have been called to liberty; only do not use liberty as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another.”
Application: Honor by taking initiative to serve others, especially when inconvenient.
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✅ 2. Speak with Grace and Encouragement
🧾 Ephesians 4:29 (NKJV)
“Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.”
Application: Honor others by building them up with your words, not tearing them down—even behind their back.
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✅ 3. Celebrate Others’ Gifts and Contributions
🧾 1 Corinthians 12:24–25 (NKJV)
“…But God composed the body, having given greater honor to that part which lacks it, that there should be no schism in the body, but that the members should have the same care for one another.”
Application: Value all roles in the church equally—encouraging those who serve behind the scenes.
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✅ 4. Submit to Spiritual Leadership
🧾 Hebrews 13:17 (NKJV)
“Obey those who rule over you, and be submissive, for they watch out for your souls, as those who must give account…”
Application: Show honor by respecting pastors, elders, and those discipling you—even when they challenge you.
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✅ 5. Restore the Fallen with Gentleness
🧾 Galatians 6:1 (NKJV)
“Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness…”
Application: To honor someone is not to shame them when they fall, but to restore them with dignity.
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🌍 Section 2: Honoring Unbelievers
Honoring unbelievers is critical for evangelism and discipleship relationships. It reflects God’s love and opens doors for the gospel.
✅ 1. Show Respect Regardless of Belief
🧾 1 Peter 3:15–16 (NKJV)
“…always be ready to give a defense… with meekness and fear; having a good conscience, that when they defame you… those who revile your good conduct in Christ may be ashamed.”
Application: Engage unbelievers respectfully, not arrogantly. Win them with truth and character.
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✅ 2. Do Good Without Expecting in Return
🧾 Luke 6:35 (NKJV)
“But love your enemies, do good, and lend, hoping for nothing in return; and your reward will be great…”
Application: Honor by being generous, especially to those who cannot repay or may even reject you.
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✅ 3. Be a Peacemaker in a Hostile Culture
🧾 Romans 12:18 (NKJV)
“If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.”
Application: Don’t retaliate or argue over non-essentials. Model peace and humility in tense conversations.
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✅ 4. Acknowledge Their God-Given Worth
🧾 Genesis 1:27 (NKJV)
“So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him…”
Application: Even if they’re far from God, they still bear His image. Treat them accordingly—with compassion, not contempt.
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✅ 5. Practice Hospitality
🧾 Hebrews 13:2 (NKJV)
“Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some have unwittingly entertained angels.”
Application: Invite unbelievers into your home, your life, and your story—model Christ before preaching Him.
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🧩 Summary Application Statement:
“To honor others is to see them through God’s eyes and treat them with intentional dignity—whether they are your brother in Christ or a stranger far from Him.”
**(5:00 – 1:00)** Doctrine TodayJesus and His Present MinistryThe Holy Spirit’s Role in Disciple Making.Dispensational Baptist view of the End TimesUnderstanding Theology is ImportantThe Gospel and Ongoing Disciple MakingChurch Role in Discerning God’s WillBarriers to Disciple MakingSpiritual WarfareJesus – IncarnationGod’s SovereigntySin and the Call to Make Disciples
REPENTANCE AND THE DISCIPLE MAKER
1. Repentance Is Central to the Gospel Message • Acts 2:38 (NKJV) – “Then Peter said to them, ‘Repent, and let every one of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins; and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.’” • Mark 1:14–15 (NKJV) – “Jesus came to Galilee, preaching the gospel of the kingdom of God, and saying, ‘The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the gospel.’”
📌 Point: The call to repentance is not optional—it’s the first response to the Gospel. As disciple-makers, we cannot proclaim Christ faithfully without calling people to repentance.
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2. Repentance Is Ongoing in the Life of the Disciple • 1 John 1:8–9 (NKJV) – “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves… If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us…” • Revelation 3:19 (NKJV) – “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten. Therefore be zealous and repent.”
📌 Point: Repentance is not a one-time act but a continual attitude of the heart. Disciple-makers must model and teach ongoing repentance as part of spiritual growth and sanctification.
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3. True Repentance Bears Fruit • Matthew 3:8 (NKJV) – “Therefore bear fruits worthy of repentance…” • Acts 26:20 (NKJV) – “…that they should repent, turn to God, and do works befitting repentance.”
📌 Point: A changed life is evidence of genuine repentance. Disciple-makers must help others identify and pursue the fruit of repentance (e.g., humility, obedience, love, reconciliation).
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4. Repentance Is a Work of God, But Requires a Human Response • 2 Timothy 2:25 (NKJV) – “…if God perhaps will grant them repentance, so that they may know the truth…” • Romans 2:4 (NKJV) – “…the goodness of God leads you to repentance.”
📌 Point: While repentance is a gift from God, it calls for a real and willing response. Disciple-makers must depend on the Spirit while calling people to take real steps.
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5. A Disciple Maker Must First Live a Life of Repentance • Psalm 139:23–24 (NKJV) – “Search me, O God, and know my heart… and lead me in the way everlasting.” • Matthew 7:3–5 (NKJV) – “First remove the plank from your own eye…”
📌 Point: Integrity matters. A disciple-maker’s power comes from walking authentically with Jesus. Ongoing self-examination and repentance are prerequisites for discipling others.
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6. Repentance Prepares the Heart for Discipleship • Luke 9:23 (NKJV) – “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.” • Acts 3:19 (NKJV) – “Repent therefore and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, so that times of refreshing may come…”
📌 Point: Discipleship requires a surrendered heart. Repentance clears the ground for following Jesus wholeheartedly and being made into His likeness.
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7. Disciple-Makers Must Call Others to Repentance Boldly and Lovingly • Luke 24:46–47 (NKJV) – “…that repentance and remission of sins should be preached in His name to all nations…” • 2 Corinthians 7:10 (NKJV) – “For godly sorrow produces repentance leading to salvation…”
📌 Point: Our call is not to shame, but to invite. We call people to repentance out of love and hope, trusting that it will lead to joy and transformation.
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How are you doing at really seeing and hearing the people around you? The message of Salvation is best given when our attitudes and actions make the love of Jesus as clear as the message of the Gospel. Let’s agree to slow down and really see the people God has placed in our lives. Seeing them, let’s honor them as image bearers of a Holy God and serve them as those Jesus loved enough to go to the cross for.
– “Thank you for listening today! -If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.Don’t be discouraged by the challenges you face. Keep your eyes on Jesus and embrace the opportunity to grow through the trial. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."**(00:00)**

Stewarding Your Time

 Ep.366 – Run With Horses Podcast – Stewarding Your TimePodcast: rwh.podbean.comWebsite: www.runwithhorses.netYoutube:  https://youtube.com/@rwhpodcastFacebook:  https://www.facebook.com/RWHpodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rwh_podcastTwitter:  https://twitter.com/RWH_podcastAuthor pages with links to all books on Amazon.https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BCSDDVLB – James Norman Smithhttps://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BMGW51FW – Susan Jane Smith
**(24:00)**If you are like me you have a long list fo things you would like to see accomplished this week. Time always seems in short supply with way more to do than time to do it. in the middle of the busyness, what is God doing? How can we keep Him first in the middle of the rat race. That our topic today!
Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
**(23:00 – 0:00)* *  PART 1Run With Horses is on the radio! If you are enjoying Run With Horses, would you let someone know? Contact the radio station or leave a review on your favorite app. We want to hear from you!
### 1. Stewardship of our Time: “Redeeming the Time”
Passage: Ephesians 5:15–17 (NKJV)
“See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, 16 redeeming the time, because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be unwise, but understand what the will of the Lord is.”Principle: Every minute is a gift. We must “buy back” each hour from distractions by aligning our schedules with God’s priorities—especially the Great Commission.
### 2. Wisdom in Planning: “The Plans of the Diligent”
Passage: Proverbs 21:5 (NKJV)
“The plans of the diligent lead surely to plenty, but those of everyone who is hasty, to poverty.”Principle: Thoughtful, prayerful planning prevents wasted time and creates margin for gospel opportunities (e.g., inviting neighbors, mentoring new believers).
### 3. Counting Our Days: “Teach Us to Number Our Days”
Passage: Psalm 90:12 (NKJV)
“So teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.”Principle: An eternal-perspective reminder that life is brief. When we internalize our limited hours, we’ll prioritize what lasts—making disciples.
### 4. Purposeful Living: “Doing All to the Glory of God”
Passage: 1 Corinthians 10:31 (NKJV)
“Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”Principle: Every task—work, rest, family time, evangelism—should be offered as worship. That reshapes even “routine” minutes into Kingdom service.
### 5. Prioritizing Prayer & Communion: “Jesus Prayed Early”
Passage: Mark 1:35 (NKJV)
“Now in the morning, having risen a long while before daylight, He went out and departed to a solitary place; and there He prayed.”Principle: Jesus structured His day around communion with the Father—our ultimate source of wisdom for time management and disciple-making.
### 6. Eternal Urgency: “For What Is Your Life?”
Passage: James 4:14 (NKJV)
“Whereas you do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away.”Principle: The fleetingness of life compels urgent obedience to the Great Commission (Matthew 28:19–20).
### 7. Single-Mindfulness: “Deny Yourself”
Passage: Luke 9:23–24 (NKJV)
“If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me. 24 For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will save it.”Principle: Self-discipline in scheduling (saying “no” to lesser things) frees us to “lose” our lives in service—especially in making disciples.
### 8. Balance Work & Rest: “Six Days You Shall Labor…”
Passage: Exodus 20:8–10,12 (NKJV)
“Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy…6 for in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth…12 ‘Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long…’”Principle: Biblical sabbath—and honoring family—establish healthy rhythms that prevent burnout and protect time for disciple-care.
###9. Investing in Others: “Do Not Steal” (as Stealing Time)
Passage: Ephesians 4:28 (NKJV)
“Let him who stole steal no longer… but rather let him labor, working with his hands what is good, that he may have something to give him who has need.”Principle: Our work (and your time!) isn’t just for self—but for generosity. Freeing up “spare” hours to invest in new believers.
### 10. The Great Commission as First Priority
Passage: Matthew 28:19–20 (NKJV)
“Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations…teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always…”Principle: Every time-management decision must be filtered through: “Will this help me obey Jesus’s command to make disciples?”
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### Part 2: Practical Advice for Using Time to Be and Make Disciples
### 1. Begin with a Paradigm Shift: Time is Kingdom Currency • Time is not just something we “spend”; it’s something we invest. Just like money, time can be stewarded for temporary or eternal purposes. • Regularly ask: “Is this activity helping me know Jesus more deeply or helping someone else follow Him better?”
“Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time…” (Ephesians 5:15–16)
### 2. Build Life Around Jesus’s Priorities, Not Just Adding Him In • Many busy Christians are trying to fit Jesus into their schedule instead of building their schedule around Him. • Suggest starting with these 3 buckets and planning around them: • Time with God (Being a disciple) – prayer, Scripture, Sabbath, silence. • Time with others (Making disciples) – intentional meals, mentoring, small groups. • Time on mission (Living sent) – workplace witness, neighborhood engagement, volunteering.
### 3. Combine Your Calling With Your Calendar
Help them redeem ordinary rhythms by integrating disciple-making into: • Meals – “Who can you eat with this week that needs encouragement or the gospel?” • Commutes – Use it for prayer, audio Bibles, check-in calls with mentees. • Family time – Lead short devotionals, model hospitality, include kids in ministry moments. • Work breaks – Strategic encouragement or follow-up with someone God’s placed nearby.
“Disciple-making doesn’t always need new time blocks—it often needs intentionality in existing ones.”
### 4. Create a Disciple-Making Weekly Rhythm
Encourage a simple rhythm: • Daily: Time with God, open eyes to opportunities. • Weekly: 1 relational touchpoint (e.g., coffee, call, prayer walk). • Monthly: One deeper investment (e.g., mentoring conversation, service together). • Quarterly: Retreat or reevaluation—Am I growing? Is anyone growing because of me?
### 5. Say No to Say Yes
Help them see that every “yes” is a “no” to something else. • Challenge: “What are you doing that someone else could do, so you can do what only you can do?” • Sometimes the most spiritual thing they can do is decline a good thing for the sake of the best thing (Luke 10:41–42 – “Martha, Martha…”).
### 6. Use Tools with Intentionality • Calendar: Block time for people, not just tasks. • Alarms/reminders: Prompt prayer, Scripture, check-ins. • Apps: Bible apps, group chats for discipleship groups, accountability tools. • Notebooks or journals: Record prayers, disciple progress, insights from Scripture.
### 7. Don’t Go Alone—Form a Band of Disciple-Makers • Encourage small discipleship bands of 2–4 people with shared goals and check-ins. • Ask: “Who’s helping you follow Jesus better? Who are you helping?” • This builds encouragement, accountability, and shared momentum.
### 8. Encouragement: Grace Over Guilt, Progress Over Perfection • Remind them that they are not earning God’s favor by being busy for Him. • Jesus is not measuring productivity; He’s forming people. • Celebrate small, faithful steps. Even 5 minutes of prayer for someone is eternally significant. • God multiplies what we surrender, even if it’s small (loaves and fish principle).
“You may feel behind, but Jesus is not. He’s patient, and He delights in every act of love in His name.”
### Challenge
 • “Imagine if every one of us made just one disciple this year.” • write one name they’ll pray for or pursue this month. • You don’t need more time—you need more focus and faith.
**(5:00 – 1:00)** Doctrine TodayJesus and His Present MinistryThe Holy Spirit’s Role in Disciple Making.Dispensational Baptist view of the End TimesUnderstanding Theology is ImportantThe Gospel and Ongoing Disciple MakingChurch Role in Discerning God’s WillBarriers to Disciple MakingSpiritual WarfareJesus – IncarnationGod’s Sovereignty
Sin and the Call to Make Disciples
I. Introduction: The Clear Call of Jesus • Matthew 28:18–20 (NKJV)“Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations…” • The Great Commission is not a suggestion, but a command. • Discipleship is not optional for the believer—it’s our identity and mission. • Briefly affirm your audience’s desire to follow Jesus more faithfully.
II. The Nature and Consequence of Sin • Romans 3:23 (NKJV)“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” • Isaiah 59:2 (NKJV)“But your iniquities have separated you from your God…” • Hebrews 12:1 (NKJV)“Let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us…”
Key Points: • Sin is not just moral failure—it’s a barrier to intimacy with God and others. • Sin entangles and weighs down believers, keeping us from active obedience. • Our mission to make disciples is spiritual warfare—sin compromises our witness, our clarity, and our power.
III. Sin’s Direct Impact on Discipleship
A. It Weakens Our Witness • 1 Peter 2:11–12 (NKJV)“…abstain from fleshly lusts which war against the soul, having your conduct honorable… that they may, by your good works… glorify God.” • Our credibility is tied to our character. Ongoing, unrepentant sin dulls our message.
B. It Diminishes Our Passion • Revelation 2:4–5 (NKJV)“…you have left your first love. Remember… repent and do the first works.” • Sin numbs the heart. A lukewarm heart does not multiply disciples—it replicates complacency.
C. It Breaks Fellowship and Unity • John 13:34–35 (NKJV)“By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.” • Sin disrupts love and unity, weakening the Church’s witness and the environment in which disciples are formed.
IV. Repentance and Restoration for Disciple Makers • 1 John 1:9 (NKJV)“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us…” • Psalm 51:10–13 (NKJV)“Create in me a clean heart… Then I will teach transgressors Your ways, and sinners shall be converted to You.” • Repentance is not the end of ministry—it’s often the beginning of renewed fruitfulness. • David sinned greatly, but through repentance, his voice became a song of redemption that still disciples us today.
V. Living Holy to Make Disciples Effectively • 2 Timothy 2:21 (NKJV)“Therefore if anyone cleanses himself… he will be a vessel for honor, sanctified and useful for the Master…” • Holiness is not perfection, but readiness—an availability for God’s use. • Personal holiness fuels spiritual authority and fruitfulness in disciple-making.
VI. Conclusion: Renew the Mission • Luke 9:23 (NKJV)“If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.” • Philippians 2:15–16 (NKJV)“…shine as lights in the world, holding fast the word of life…” • The world needs disciples. The church needs disciple-makers. Jesus is still calling. • Let us repent where we’ve fallen, recommit where we’ve grown weary, and re-engage the mission with holy fire.
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Busyness can suck that life out of you. One reason is that other activities intrude on the work that God is doing in you and through you. Be proactive and put God first in every activity, every day. It’s not always easy but it’s always right.
– “Thank you for listening today! -If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.Don’t be discouraged by the challenges you face. Keep your eyes on Jesus and embrace the opportunity to grow through the trial. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."**(00:00)**

Goal Setting for Spiritual Growth

rwh24may Ep.365 – Run With Horses Podcast – Goal Setting
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 **(24:00)**
Do you find yourself wandering through life, one day morphing into the next and one year much like the last? Is your life lacking the clear spiritual progress you would like to see? IF so, today may be just for you. We are looking at pursuing clear Biblical goals to get out of a rut and back on track.
 
Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!
Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
 
**(23:00 – 0:00)* *  PART 1
 
 
Goal setting is useful for followers of Jesus—especially for Baptist Christians who want to be disciple makers—because it helps us live intentionally, steward our time wisely, and align our lives with Christ's mission.
 
### 1. **Keeps Us Focused on the Mission**
 
Jesus commanded His followers to “make disciples of all the nations” (Matthew 28:19–20, NKJV). Setting specific goals helps us stay focused on this Great Commission. Without clear direction, it’s easy to drift. But when we prayerfully set goals for relationships, spiritual growth, and ministry opportunities, we live with purpose.
Why do we drift so easily? The world is full of distractions. Even good things can hinder us from pursuing the best things. Our priorities should be clear but often seem fuzzy.
 
### 2. **Encourages Faithful Stewardship**
 
Ephesians 5:15–16 says, “See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil.” Goal setting helps us steward our time, talents, and resources for eternal impact. It keeps us from wasting energy on things that don't contribute to Christ’s kingdom.
Every resource is ultimately God’s. Our time is our most valuable resource and the easiest to waste. Clear goals help us evaluate the use of all of our resources in light of God’s work in our life and in the world.
 
### 3. **Provides a Framework for Spiritual Growth**
 
2 Peter 3:18 urges us to “grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.” Setting personal spiritual goals (e.g., daily devotions, Scripture memorization, sharing the gospel weekly) helps us pursue maturity as disciples—so that we can help others grow as well.
Although God always does His work of sanctification, He invites us to be part of the process. making clear decisions based on His Word and His Work is part of the process. There are clear choices that help us to grow toward maturity. Prayer, Bible reading and involvement with the church family are foundational and it is easy to set simple realistic goals for each on that will help us stay on track.
 
### 4. **Promotes Intentional Relationships**
 
Disciple making requires time and intentionality. Setting goals to meet regularly with a younger believer, to start a Bible study, or to mentor a new Christian helps ensure we are actively investing in others for their spiritual benefit (2 Timothy 2:2).
Disciple Making is about people. Using our time wisely gives us more time for investing in others. Keeping our lives simple helps us free up time and resources to be generous in all areas of life.
 
### 5. **Builds Accountability and Encourages Perseverance**
 
When we set godly goals and share them with others in the church, we create a structure for encouragement and accountability (Hebrews 10:24–25). This helps us persevere when we face discouragement, setbacks, or spiritual warfare.
We need to ask for accountability. IT is difficult to do that when we aren’t actually working on anything related to our spiritual growth. With clear goals it is easy for others to talk with us about how God is working in us. Those conversations can be encouraging and help us perevere when times are tough.
 
### 6. **Reflects the Wisdom of Planning Under God’s Sovereignty**
 
Proverbs 21:5 says, “The plans of the diligent lead surely to plenty.” While we trust God’s sovereignty over our lives, we are still called to plan wisely and act in faith. Goal setting is an act of diligence that honors the Lord when it is submitted to His will (James 4:13–15).God has a plan. He is organized and purposeful in all that he does. If we are to be growing in Christ-likeness, we are to be growing in purposeful choices that lead us closer to Him.
 
**In summary:** For a believer who wants to make disciples, goal setting is a practical expression of faithfulness. It helps us be intentional about growing spiritually, investing in others, and fulfilling Jesus’ mission—always depending on God’s grace and guidance every step of the way.
 
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**(27:00 – 5:00) BEGIN PART 2**
 
Implementing goal setting into a personal spiritual journey is a way for a disciple of Jesus to grow in Christlikeness and become more effective in making disciples. As a disciple committed to the authority of Scripture and the Great Commission, goal setting should be approached prayerfully, biblically, and purposefully.
 
How do you begin implementing goal setting in your spiritual life?
 
### 1. Start with God’s Purpose, Not Personal Ambition
 
Our goals must flow from God’s purposes—not personal preferences. God’s purpose for every believer is to be conformed to the image of Christ and to make disciples.
 
📖 “For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son…” — Romans 8:29 NKJV
 
📖 “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them… teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you…” — Matthew 28:19–20 NKJV
 
➡️ Action: Prayerfully ask: What would it look like to grow in Christlikeness and help others do the same this year?
 
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### 2. Examine Your Current Spiritual Life Honestly
 
Before setting goals, examine where you are spiritually.
 
📖 “Examine yourselves as to whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves.” — 2 Corinthians 13:5 NKJV
 
➡️ Action: Use questions like:
•Am I spending daily time with God in the Word and prayer?
•Am I regularly involved in the life of my church?
•Am I actively sharing my faith or discipling others?
 
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### 3. Set Specific and Biblical Spiritual Goals
 
Your goals should be specific, measurable, spiritually motivated, and biblically grounded.
 
Examples:
•Spend 30 minutes each day in Bible reading and journaling.
•Memorize one verse per week.
•Start discipling one person by the end of the quarter.
 
📖 “But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.” — 2 Peter 3:18 NKJV
 
📖 “Your word I have hidden in my heart, that I might not sin against You.” — Psalm 119:11 NKJV
 
➡️ Action: Write down 2–3 specific spiritual goals in the areas of Bible intake, prayer, fellowship, evangelism, and disciple-making.
 
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### 4. Align Your Goals with the Church and Community
 
As Baptists, we emphasize the local church as the context for spiritual growth and mission.
 
📖 “And He Himself gave some to be… pastors and teachers, for the equipping of the saints for the work of ministry…” — Ephesians 4:11–12 NKJV
 
➡️ Action: Ask:
•How can my goals serve the church’s mission?
•Who can help hold me accountable?
•Is there someone I can disciple as I grow?
 
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### 5. Seek Accountability and Encouragement
 
Goal setting should not be done in isolation. Find others in the body of Christ to walk with you.
 
📖 “As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.” — Proverbs 27:17 NKJV
 
📖 “And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works…” — Hebrews 10:24 NKJV
 
➡️ Action: Share your goals with a mentor, pastor, or small group. Regularly review them together.
 
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### 6. Make Space for God’s Work Through Grace
 
Goals are tools, not masters. You grow by grace, not legalism.
 
📖 “Being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ.” — Philippians 1:6 NKJV
 
📖 “But by the grace of God I am what I am, and His grace toward me was not in vain…” — 1 Corinthians 15:10 NKJV
 
➡️ Action: Keep your goals flexible and dependent on God’s leading and grace. Review and adjust as He grows you.
 
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###  7. Evaluate Regularly and Give Glory to God
 
Set regular times to evaluate progress—not for pride, but for growth and gratitude.
 
📖 “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” — Psalm 90:12 NKJV
 
📖 “Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.” — 1 Corinthians 10:31 NKJV
 
➡️ Action: Monthly or quarterly, ask:
•What progress am I making?
•What adjustments are needed?
•How can I thank and glorify God for what He is doing?
 
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Sample Spiritual Goals for a Disciple Maker
•Daily Time in the Word: Read through the New Testament in 6 months.
•Prayer: Pray for 5 people daily, including 1 person you’re discipling or evangelizing.
•Evangelism: Share your testimony or the gospel once a week.
•Discipleship: Start meeting with one person bi-weekly to study the Bible.
•Church Involvement: Commit to serving in a specific ministry in your local church.
 
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By setting Christ-centered, biblically grounded goals, you actively pursue spiritual maturity and position yourself to make more and better disciples—all for the glory of God.
 
 
**(5:00 – 1:00)** 
 
Doctrine Today
Jesus and His Present Ministry
The Holy Spirit’s Role in Disciple Making.
Dispensational Baptist view of the End Times
Understanding Theology is Important
The Gospel and Ongoing Disciple Making
Church Role in Discerning God’s Will
Barriers to Disciple Making
Spiritual Warfare
Jesus – Incarnation
God’s Sovereignty
### The Bible Transforms Us
 
1. We Are Commanded to Be Faithful Students of Scripture
•2 Timothy 2:15 –
“Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.”
•Disciple makers are workers who handle the Word.
•“Rightly dividing” means interpreting correctly—this requires intentional study.
 
2. We Teach Others What We Ourselves Have Learned
•Ezra 7:10 –
“For Ezra had prepared his heart to seek the Law of the Lord, and to do it, and to teach statutes and ordinances in Israel.”
•The pattern is: seek it, do it, teach it.
•Disciple makers must not skip the study phase—they must model obedience.
 
3. The Word of God Is Living and Active
•Hebrews 4:12 –
“For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit… and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.”
•The Bible doesn’t just inform; it transforms.
•God uses it to reveal our motives and shape our hearts.
 
4. Transformation Must Begin With Us
•James 1:22–24 –
“But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves… he is like a man observing his natural face in a mirror…”
•If we hear but don’t change, we are self-deceived.
•Disciple makers must live what they teach—or our message will lack credibility.
 
 
**(1:00)** 
Most of us could stand to be a little more purposeful in our day to day choices. Instead of letting the schedule and other people drive our lives, making deliberate choices to pursue Jesus and His mission need to take first place. There is great potential for growth when we intentionally follow in His footsteps.
 
– “Thank you for listening today! 
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
Don’t be discouraged by the challenges you face. Keep your eyes on Jesus and embrace the opportunity to grow through the trial. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
**(00:00)**

Women at Work With Special Guest Susan (and Chloe)

Norman is out sick but the ladies carry the day!

A Growth Mindset for Disciple Makers

rwh10may Ep.363 – Run With Horses Podcast – A Growth Mindset for Disciple Makers
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1. The Growth Mindset in a Christian Context
Paul challenged believers to put effort into their spiritual life. Change is a part of growth and we should desire to be more like Jesus. A Christian is filled with the Holy Spirit who is working to make us like Jesus. Change will happen. The joy is that we can embrace it and benefit from working with God instead of against Him. A growth-minded believer:
Welcomes challenges as opportunities for sanctification (James 1:2–4 NKJV).
Perseveres under trial, knowing endurance produces spiritual maturity (Romans 5:3–5 NKJV).
Seeks feedback and correction, recognizing rebuke refines faith (Proverbs 27:17 NKJV; Proverbs 12:1 NKJV).
Celebrates others’ growth, rejoicing when fellow believers flourish (Romans 12:15 NKJV).
2. Discipleship and the Great Commission
Jesus’ charge to “make disciples” frames our growth-oriented calling:
“Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”—Matthew 28:19–20 (NKJV)
A growth mindset fuels the “teaching” phase: we believe learners can grow in knowledge, obedience, and Christ-likeness. It also shapes our own approach, as we accept that our skills in evangelism, teaching, and mentoring improve through practice, prayer, and reliance on God.
3. Spiritual Growth is a Process
Scripture depicts growth as a journey:
“But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.”—2 Peter 3:18 (NKJV)
“Therefore, leaving the discussion of the elementary principles of Christ, let us go on to perfection…”—Hebrews 6:1 (NKJV)
“I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”—Philippians 3:14 (NKJV)
These passages underscore that maturity takes intentional effort—exactly the outworking of a growth mindset in the spiritual realm.
4. The “One Another’s” and Growth Mindset
Command
Scripture (NKJV)
Growth-Mindset Connection
Love one another
John 13:34–35
Encourages perseverance in relationships even when hard.
Serve one another
Galatians 5:13
Builds humility and stewards gifts for others’ growth.
Encourage one another
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Puts others first.
Admonish one another
Colossians 3:16; Romans 15:14
Welcomes correction for mutual sanctification.
Bear one another’s burdens
Galatians 6:2
Cultivates perseverance and compassion.
Spur one another on
Hebrews 10:24
Motivates toward good deeds and spiritual progress.
Pray for one another
James 5:16
Invites God’s transforming power in growth.
Be kind and tenderhearted
Ephesians 4:32
Gives mercy to those who need it, we all do!
Together, these “one another’s” form the relational soil in which a growth mindset flourishes—each believer both a learner and a teacher, giving and receiving grace, correction, encouragement, and accountability.
5. Practical Implications for Disciple Makers
Model a growth mindset by sharing your own struggles and progress in Bible study, prayer, or ministry skills.
Set incremental goals for disciples (e.g., memorizing Scripture, leading a small group), celebrating small wins to build confidence (Zechariah 4:10 NKJV).
Cultivate “one another” rhythms in your church—regular accountability groups, prayer partnerships, and service teams.
Teach the biblical process of growth—explain that sanctification involves trials, correction, and perseverance, rooted in passages like James 1:2–4 (NKJV) and Hebrews 12:11 (NKJV).
Encourage reflection—have disciples journal progress, confess weaknesses, and plan next steps, reinforcing that effort and dependence on Christ yield transformation.
 
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**(27:00 – 5:00) BEGIN PART 2**
 
The Holy Spirit reshapes how we think about challenges, our own abilities, and the process of sanctification.
1. Confess Fixed-Mindset Thinking and Renew Your Mind
“I can’t change,” “I can’t do that.” and the like are big hinderances to spiritual growth. Lies need to be brought into the light and exchanged for truth. The question should be, “What is God doing? What does HE want me to do?” God empowers His people for His work.
“And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…”—Romans 12:2 (NKJV)
Practice:
Keep a “mindset journal.” When you catch yourself thinking “I’ll never grow in this,” write it down and pray: “Lord, show me Your truth here.”
Replace it with a Scriptural affirmation (“I can grow by God’s grace”—Philippians 4:13).
2. Meditate on God’s Word Daily
A growth mindset flourishes when immersed in truth. Scripture both reveals God’s power to change us and gives the roadmap.
Read, Think Deeply about,and put it into practice.
“…but his delight is in the law of the Lord, And in His law he meditates day and night.”—Psalm 1:2 (NKJV)
Practice:
Start with 5–10 minutes each morning reading a short passage (e.g. one chapter of Proverbs or the Gospels).
Ask: “What does this teach me about God’s promise to strengthen me?”
3. Pray for Wisdom and Perseverance
Growth requires divine enablement—both insight and the grit to keep going.
“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally…”—James 1:5 (NKJV)
“Count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.”—James 1:2–3 (NKJV)
Practice:
Begin each day by asking God for wisdom to see opportunities for growth and the patience to endure them.
When trials come (at work, in relationships, in ministry), thank Him for the refining work He intends.
4. Engage in Christian Community
Even if attendance has been spotty, intentional fellowship is vital for encouragement, accountability, and skill development.
“And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another…”—Hebrews 10:24–25 (NKJV)
“As iron sharpens iron, So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.”—Proverbs 27:17 (NKJV)
Practice:
Commit to attending at least one fellowship gathering (Sunday service, small group, men’s/women’s Bible study).
Ask a mature believer to meet monthly as a “growth partner” for prayer and feedback.
5. Set Small, Measurable Goals for Spiritual Disciplines
SMART goals
Growth rarely happens overnight. Incremental victories build confidence that God can grow you further.
“For who has despised the day of small things?…”—Zechariah 4:10 (NKJV)
Practice:
Choose one discipline (e.g., Scripture memory, daily prayer journaling, service) and set a tiny goal: memorize one verse a week, pray five minutes daily, serve once a month.
Celebrate each completion by recording it in your journal and thanking God.
6. Welcome Correction and Feedback
A growth mindset leans into rebuke, knowing it produces maturity.
“The ear that hears the rebukes of life Will abide among the wise.”—Proverbs 15:31 (NKJV)
“But exhort one another daily, while it is called ‘Today,’ lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.”—Hebrews 3:13 (NKJV)
Practice:
Invite a trusted mentor or friend to give you honest feedback on your spiritual habits.
When you receive correction, respond with “Thank you—help me understand how to improve.”
7. Practice Gratitude and Celebrate Others’ Growth
Focusing on progress—both yours and others’—reinforces a mindset that abilities can expand.
“Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.”—Romans 12:15 (NKJV)
“In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”—1 Thessalonians 5:18 (NKJV)
Practice:
Keep a “gratitude list” of spiritual wins you see in yourself and others.
Send a quick note or text to encourage a fellow believer when they share a breakthrough.
8. Rely on God’s Strength in Weakness
A growth mindset isn’t self-reliance; it’s dependence on Christ, who is at work in us.
“…when I am weak, then I am strong.”—2 Corinthians 12:10 (NKJV)
Practice:
In moments of discouragement (“I failed again…”), confess your weakness and ask Christ to work through it.
Memorize 2 Corinthians 12:9–10 and speak it aloud whenever you feel stuck.
 
 
**(5:00 – 1:00)**
Doctrine Today
Jesus and His Present Ministry
The Holy Spirit’s Role in Disciple Making.
Dispensational Baptist view of the End Times
Understanding Theology is Important
The Gospel and Ongoing Disciple Making
Church Role in Discerning God’s Will
Barriers to Disciple Making
Spiritual Warfare
Jesus – Incarnation
God’s Sovereignty
God’s sovereignty means that God reigns over all things with perfect wisdom, power, and love, and nothing in our lives is outside His control.
1. God’s Sovereignty Brings Peace in Uncertainty
When life feels chaotic or unjust, God’s sovereignty assures us that nothing happens apart from His knowledge or plan.
“The Lord has established His throne in heaven,And His kingdom rules over all.”—Psalm 103:19 (NKJV)
“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.”—Romans 8:28 (NKJV)
Why it matters: Even suffering and confusion have purpose under God's rule. He’s not reacting—He’s reigning.
2. God’s Sovereignty Fuels Evangelism and Disciple-Making
Because God is sovereign over salvation, we can evangelize boldly, knowing He draws hearts to Himself.
“All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the one who comes to Me I will by no means cast out.”—John 6:37 (NKJV)
“No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him…”—John 6:44 (NKJV)
Why it matters: The results of disciple-making aren’t on your shoulders. You sow and water; God gives the increase (1 Corinthians 3:6–7 NKJV).
3. God’s Sovereignty Grounds Our Identity and Purpose
You are not random. You are created, saved, and called intentionally.
“Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed.And in Your book they all were written,The days fashioned for me,When as yet there were none of them.”—Psalm 139:16 (NKJV)
“For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.”—Ephesians 2:10 (NKJV)
Why it matters: Your life, your calling, and even your challenges are part of God’s good and sovereign plan.
4. God’s Sovereignty Produces Worship and Humility
When we recognize God is in control and we are not, we bow in awe and dependence.
“Yours, O Lord, is the greatness,The power and the glory,The victory and the majesty;For all that is in heaven and in earth is Yours;Yours is the kingdom, O Lord,And You are exalted as head over all.”—1 Chronicles 29:11 (NKJV)
“For My thoughts are not your thoughts,Nor are your ways My ways,” says the Lord.—Isaiah 55:8 (NKJV)
Why it matters: Sovereignty reminds us that God is God—and we are not.
5. God’s Sovereignty Guarantees His Promises Will Stand
We can believe God's Word with full assurance because no power can thwart His will.
“Indeed before the day was, I am He;And there is no one who can deliver out of My hand;I work, and who will reverse it?”—Isaiah 43:13 (NKJV)
“The counsel of the Lord stands forever,The plans of His heart to all generations.”—Psalm 33:11 (NKJV)
Why it matters: Our eternal hope is secure because it rests in God’s unshakable rule.
 
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It’s important for all of us to see the big picture in life. God IS working and He WILL complete His work in you. Daily remind yourself that God is drawing you to Himself and He invites you to be an active participant in your spiritual growth. Reject the lie that you can’t change. See the person God wants you to be and put real effort into doing your part, trusting that God will always do His part.
 
– “Thank you for listening today!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
Don’t be discouraged by the challenges you face. Keep your eyes on Jesus and embrace the opportunity to grow through the trial. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
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An Accountable Christian

rwh3may Ep.362 – Run With Horses Podcast – Accountability
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Author pages with links to all books on Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BCSDDVLB – James Norman Smith
https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BMGW51FW – Susan Jane Smith
**(24:00)**
Do you find it difficult to stay on track and actually do the things you know you should do? Is consistency in exercise, healthy eating, regular prayer and daily time with God a problem for you? If so, you may benefit from seeking healthy, ongoing accountability as part of your spiritual journey toward Christ-likeness.
Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!
Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
**(23:00 – 0:00)* * PART 1
Shout out to Radio Stations!
 
When the topic is accountability many people instantly run for the hills, fearing an heavy overbearing hand forcing them to do things they don’t want to do and hating every minute of it. Let me ease your mind, that is not Biblical accountability!
Biblical Accountability is a key tool in the life of a follower of Jesus who is seeking to grow spiritually and live according to biblical principles. It is something you invite into your relationships with other growing disciple of Jesus. We are on the same path and can help each other as we go. It’s not force, it’s mutual cooperation to intentionally move in the direction God is showing us.
1. Accountability to God
As followers of Jesus, we are ultimately accountable to God for how we live our lives. Every believer must recognize that their actions, thoughts, and behaviors are under God's authority.
Romans 14:12
2 Corinthians 5:10
2. Accountability to Fellow Believers
The Bible also teaches that believers should be accountable to one another. We are not meant to walk the Christian life alone. God designed the church as a community where believers help one another grow spiritually.
Galatians 6:1-2
James 5:16
3. Mutual Accountability in Spiritual Growth
Spiritual growth requires intentionality, and part of that is having people in our lives who can help hold us accountable in our pursuit of holiness and spiritual maturity.
Hebrews 10:24-25
Proverbs 27:17
4. Examples of Accountability in the Bible
Nathan and David: A powerful example of accountability can be seen in the relationship between the prophet Nathan and King David. After David's sin with Bathsheba, God sent Nathan to confront David about his sin. Nathan’s courage to hold David accountable ultimately led to David’s repentance and restoration (2 Samuel 12:1-14). This example highlights how accountability often involves speaking the truth in love, even when it's difficult.
Paul and Peter: The apostle Paul held Peter accountable in Galatians 2:11-14, when Peter’s actions were inconsistent with the gospel. Peter was initially eating with Gentiles, but when certain Jewish believers arrived, he withdrew, fearing what they might think. Paul publicly confronted him, saying, “But when I saw that they were not straightforward about the truth of the gospel, I said to Peter before them all, ‘If you, being a Jew, live in the manner of Gentiles and not as the Jews, why do you compel Gentiles to live as Jews?’” (Galatians 2:14). This shows that accountability sometimes involves a public rebuke when necessary to uphold the truth of the gospel.
Jesus and His Disciples: Jesus modeled accountability in His relationships with His disciples. He often rebuked them for their lack of faith or for misunderstanding His mission (e.g., Matthew 16:23, when He rebuked Peter, "Get behind Me, Satan!"). However, He also encouraged them to support each other, as seen in John 13:34-35, where He commanded them to love one another as He had loved them. The accountability Jesus modeled was always rooted in love and truth.
5. Personal Responsibility and the Role of the Holy Spirit
Ultimately, the Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in the life of a believer as they grow spiritually. The Holy Spirit convicts believers of sin, guides them into truth, and empowers them to live out the Christian life. Accountability to the Holy Spirit is a matter of responding to His promptings and seeking His strength to live faithfully.
John 14:26
Romans 8:13
 
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Seeking out accountability is a crucial aspect of spiritual growth for several reasons. It helps believers stay on track in their walk with God, provides encouragement, and ensures that they are living according to biblical principles.
1. Why Should a Person Seek Out Accountability?
a. Prevents Spiritual Drift
Accountability acts as a safeguard against spiritual drift. Without accountability, a person might subtly slide away from their spiritual disciplines, make compromises, or even fall into sin without realizing it. Having someone who can help point out blind spots and encourage continued growth helps keep a believer anchored in their faith.
Proverbs 4:23
b. Helps Resist Temptation
We all face temptations, and sometimes, the temptation to sin feels overwhelming. Accountability provides a powerful weapon to fight against temptation, as having someone to confess struggles to and ask for prayer can make a huge difference in overcoming sin.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
c. Provides Encouragement
Christian life is not a solo journey. Having others to encourage and challenge you is crucial for perseverance, especially when trials come. Accountability relationships are a source of encouragement when things feel difficult or when you're unsure about the next steps in your spiritual walk.
Hebrews 10:24-25
d. Fosters Humility and Repentance
Having someone who can challenge us or confront us when we’re in the wrong helps us maintain a heart of humility and openness. Accountability is not just about staying in line but also about being willing to acknowledge our faults and make changes when needed.
James 5:16
2. How Does Accountability Help a Person Grow?
a. Encourages Discipline
Spiritual growth requires intentionality and discipline. Accountability partners help set goals and hold each other to those goals. This might involve commitments to prayer, Bible reading, serving others, or other spiritual disciplines. Having someone to check in with keeps us motivated and consistent.
1 Timothy 4:7-8
b. Provides Insight and Perspective
Accountability often brings perspective. We can be blind to our own shortcomings or struggles, but an accountability partner may see things we don’t. They can offer valuable advice, wisdom, or scriptural insights that help us grow.
Proverbs 27:17
c. Strengthens Faith
When believers come together for mutual accountability, their faith grows. Seeing others live out their faith and share their experiences can inspire us to deepen our own commitment to God. It fosters a sense of camaraderie and strengthens our resolve to stay faithful.
Romans 1:12
d. Promotes Holiness and Christlikeness
Accountability helps keep believers focused on the goal of becoming more like Christ. The process of confessing sin, receiving correction, and being encouraged to pursue holiness creates an environment where believers can grow in their sanctification.
Philippians 2:1-2
3. How Can a Person Go About Finding Ongoing Accountability Relationships?
a. Start with Prayer
Before seeking accountability, it’s important to pray for guidance. Ask God to lead you to the right people—those who are spiritually mature and trustworthy, and who will help you grow in your faith.
James 1:5
b. Look for Like-minded Individuals
Seek people who are also committed to growing spiritually and living out biblical principles. Accountability works best when both parties are serious about their spiritual growth. This can include fellow church members, small group participants, or individuals from a Bible study.
2 Corinthians 6:14
c. Join a Small Group or Bible Study
Small groups, Bible studies, or discipleship groups are great places to build deeper relationships where mutual accountability can happen. These groups provide a natural environment for openness, prayer, and spiritual growth.
Acts 2:42
d. Approach Someone with Humility
If you don’t already have an accountability partner, don’t be afraid to approach someone you respect spiritually and ask if they would be willing to meet regularly to hold each other accountable. Be honest about what you’re seeking and humble in your approach.
Proverbs 15:22
e. Be Open and Transparent
The success of accountability relationships depends on openness and honesty. Be willing to share your struggles and your victories, and be open to both encouragement and correction.
Ephesians 4:25
Accountability is Healthy Relationships
At its core, talking about growth issues together.
What we need, how we do it, what the stumbling blocks are. Asking how it’s going is a rminder to keep trying!
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Doctrine Today
Jesus - Incarnation
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– “Thank you for listening today!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
Don’t be discouraged by the challenges you face. Keep your eyes on Jesus and embrace the opportunity to grow through the trial. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
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Resilient Faith

rwh26april Ep.361 – Run With Horses Podcast – Resilient Faith
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https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BMGW51FW – Susan Jane Smith
 
Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!
Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
Resilience is the ability to withstand, recover and even thrive in the midst of life's challenges while trusting God to accomplish His work. Resilience is really about our Faith. It is the strength and endurance to keep pressing forward in the face of adversity, maintaining faith in God's sovereignty and goodness. Resilience is not simply about surviving difficulty, but about growing spiritually and becoming more Christ-like in the process.
Biblical Understanding of Resilience
Patience Matures Our Faith: James 1:2-4 See trials as opportunities for spiritual growth:
Resilience is tied to patience developed through trials. Instead of letting trials break us, we allow them to refine and mature our faith, making us more like Jesus.
God’s Strength in Our Weakness: The Apostle Paul exemplifies resilience in 2 Corinthians 12:9-10:
Resilience in the Christian life is not about our own strength, but about relying on God’s strength. Our weakness becomes the vehicle for God's power to work through us, glorifying God and accomplishing His Will.
Imitate Christ's Example: Hebrews 12:1-2, Follow Jesus' example of enduring the cross, all for the joy set before Him:
Jesus endured because He had an eternal perspective. Resilience, for the follower of Christ, involves fixing our eyes on the hope and reward that await us in eternity. Tis life is the journey that God uses to prepare us for eternity with Him.
Trusting God’s Promises Leads to Hope: Romans 5:3-5 :
Hope is really important when we face challenges. And there is always Hope in Jesus! Trials refine our character and deepen our relationship with God. Knowing Him and His purposes, ultimately makes us more resilient in our Journey of Faith.
Resilience and Discipleship
In the life of a believer, resilience is directly connected to discipleship and spiritual growth. Discipleship is not just about learning doctrine or performing religious duties; it is about becoming more like Jesus. As we endure trials with faith and patience, we grow in spiritual maturity and learn to depend on God more fully.
Resilience Shapes Character: As we persevere through challenges, our character is refined, and we learn to love, trust, and obey God more fully. Romans 5:3-5 shows that tribulation produces perseverance, which leads to stronger character and unshakable hope.
Resilience Cultivates Faithfulness: Discipleship is about the journey of following God daily in every circumstances. 1 Peter 1:6-7 reminds us that our faith is tested, and once proven, brings glory to God:
As we remain faithful under trial, we demonstrate the genuineness of our faith. This faith, Real, tested and proven, will bring glory to God.
Spiritual Growth Through Trials: The process of growing as a disciple requires us to be resilient. Trials are the training ground for spiritual maturity if you are a disciple of Jesus. He never promised an easy path!
But He promises that it would be worth it in the end.
The Role of the Holy Spirit in Resilience
The Holy Spirit is integral to developing resilience. Romans 8:11 speaks of the power of the Holy Spirit to give life and strength to believers:
The same Spirit who raised Jesus from the dead enables believers to live with endurance, overcoming obstacles and remaining faithful in trials. Prayer and trusting God to work when our strength is gone are both Key for developing the abiity to get up every time life knocks you down.
Resilience Keeps You On The Path To Christ-likeness
As we endure hardship, we grow in patience, character, and hope, which ultimately leads to greater spiritual maturity. This process is central to ongoing discipleship, as it shapes us into the image of Christ.
A disciple of Jesus is on a continual journey of growing in faith, learning to rely on God's strength daily, and persevering through life’s trials. Both disciples and disciple makers have a role to play in this journey of Faith. Spiritual strength is nurtured through the spiritual disciplines as we deepen our relationship with God, and learn to trust in His faithfulness.
How To Develop Resilience
See the Big Picture: God is at work in the world and trials are normal and natural. The goal is not to avoid them but to grow through them. Let God accomplish His work in your life. God opens doors for ministry through our personal trials, look for them!
Do everything that you can to grow and mature your Faith! Be intentional about life, particularly your spiritual life.
Embrace God’s Word: One of the foundational ways a disciple develops resilience is through a deeper understanding of and trust in God’s Word. The Bible gives an eternal perspective for enduring trials. By studying Scripture, disciples learn what God is doing and learn to trust His promises, which gives them the strength to persevere.
Psalm 119:50:
A Deeper Relationship with God: Resilience is nurtured through a close relationship with God. Everything that we do to draw closer to Him helps prepare us for the next challenge. Prayer, meditation and memorizaton of the Bible and time with God’s family all strengthen our trust in God’s provision, wisdom, and presence. Jesus modeled these in His own life, we should do no less.
Philippians 4:6-7:
Through Reliance on God’s Strength (Not Our Own): Resilience is not about self-sufficiency, but about relying on God’s strength. The Apostle Paul was a model of this truth, understanding that his weakness allowed God’s strength to be more clearly displayed.
2 Corinthians 12:9-10:
A disciple develops resilience by recognizing that through their weakness that God’s power is most evident. This humility and dependence on God’s grace is key to enduring trials with perseverance.
Through Practicing Obedience and Faithfulness in Small Things: Resilience is developed when a disciple learns to be faithful in the small things, trusting God in everyday life. Obedience, even in seemingly insignificant matters, builds the foundation for enduring greater trials.
Luke 16:10:
By being faithful in small matters, a disciple strengthens their ability to endure more significant trials and challenges.
Through Fellowship with Other Believers: Resilience is also cultivated in the context of community. Believers encourage one another, pray for one another, and share in each other’s struggles. Being part of a supportive Christian community strengthens a disciple’s ability to persevere.
Hebrews 10:24-25:
Fellowship provides encouragement and accountability, helping disciples remain resilient as they navigate life’s challenges.
How a Disciple Maker Helps Others Develop Resilience
A disciple maker has a unique role in helping others grow in resilience by walking alongside them, providing guidance, and encouraging them to press on in their faith. Here’s how a disciple maker can help others develop resilience:
Modeling Resilience through Personal Example: One of the most powerful ways a disciple maker can encourage resilience is by modeling it in their own life. When a disciple maker faces trials and shows how they rely on God’s strength, it serves as a powerful testimony for others to follow.
1 Thessalonians 1:6-7:
Teaching the Importance of Perspective: Disciple makers can help others develop resilience by teaching them to have an eternal perspective on their trials. They can point others to the hope of eternal life and the ultimate victory that awaits, even in the midst of hardship.
Romans 8:18:
By helping others keep an eternal perspective, disciple makers teach them to view their trials in light of God’s promises and the hope of future glory.
Encouraging the Practice of Spiritual Disciplines: Disciple makers should encourage the regular practice of spiritual disciplines—prayer, Bible study, worship, and fasting—as these practices strengthen the disciple’s spiritual resilience.
Colossians 2:6-7:
Spiritual disciplines help to deepen a disciple’s relationship with God, which builds the foundation for resilience.
Providing Encouragement and Accountability: A disciple maker should be a source of encouragement and accountability, especially in difficult times. They can remind the disciple of God’s faithfulness, pray for them, and offer counsel that points them back to Christ.
Galatians 6:2:
Helping others bear their burdens is an essential part of developing resilience. A disciple maker should walk alongside their disciples, offering support, encouragement, and wisdom during trials.
Helping Disciplines Focus on God’s Promises: Disciple makers can help others develop resilience by pointing them back to God’s promises in times of hardship. The promises of God’s presence, provision, and protection provide a firm foundation for resilience.
Isaiah 41:10:
A disciple maker can continually remind those they are discipling of the faithfulness of God, helping them to trust in His promises during difficult times.
Conclusion
A disciple of Jesus develops resilience by deeply engaging with God’s Word, prayer, dependence on God’s strength, obedience, and fellowship with other believers. A disciple maker helps others develop resilience by modeling it, teaching the importance of perspective, encouraging spiritual disciplines, providing support, and focusing on God’s promises. Together, these practices foster a strong, enduring faith that enables believers to press on through trials and grow more like Christ in the process.
Doctrine Today
Spiritual Warfare
 
It’s not easy to keep going when the journey is long and tough. The good news is that Jesus understands and takes the journey with us. You never have to face the trials alone. Stand tall and lean on Jesus in the middle of Life’s storms, trusting that He is growing you into the person you need to be.
 
– “Thank you for listening today!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
Don’t be discouraged by the challenges you face. Keep your eyes on Jesus and embrace the opportunity to grow through the trial. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."

Balancing Self-Reliance and Interdependence

rwh19april Ep.360 – Run With Horses Podcast – Balancing Self-Reliance and Interdependence
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Do you go it alone or do you walk through life with others? It’s not an either/ or proposition, it’s both! There are areas where you definitely have to pull you own weight but often, much more often than you may think, we are supposed to help each other through life. Today, we are thinking about self-reliance and interdependence for disciples of Jesus.
Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!
Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
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B. Overview
Scripture calls believers to cultivate personal accountability (self-reliance) while actively engaging in a community of faith (interdependence).
Key Themes:
Biblical foundations for self-reliance in areas like personal spiritual growth, work, and stewardship.
Scriptural mandates for living in community, bearing one another’s burdens, and using spiritual gifts for the common good.
C. Context
Emphasize believer’s individual responsibility before God.
Highlight the importance of local church fellowship as a way of fulfilling our mission together.
D. Today I want you to consider:
What does “self-reliance” mean in your personal walk with Christ?
How do you see interdependence playing a role in your local church or community?
II. Self-Reliance in the Christian Life
A. Definition and Biblical Context
Self-reliance: Cultivating personal responsibility in one’s faith, work, finances, and spiritual growth, recognizing that while God provides strength, He also calls us to be diligent stewards of our lives.
B. Passages on Self-Reliance
Proverbs 6:6-8 (NKJV):
“Go to the ant, you sluggard;Consider her ways, and be wise.Which having no guide, overseer, or ruler,Provideth her supplies in the summer,And gathers her food in the harvest.”
Encourage proactive effort and preparedness in everyday life.
In what areas of your life can you emulate the ant’s industriousness?
Galatians 6:4-5 (NKJV):
“But let each one examine his own work, and then he shall have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. For each one shall bear his own load.”
Highlight the importance of personal evaluation and responsibility.
How can you take ownership of your spiritual growth while avoiding pride?
Philippians 4:13 (NKJV):
“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
Emphasize that personal achievement is rooted in Christ’s strength working through us.
How does relying on Christ’s strength change your approach to personal challenges?
C. Practical Steps
Self-Examination: Encourage daily devotional practices and self-reflection.
How are you taking responsibility for your life now? What practical actions show that you are serious about your spiritual life and responsibilities before God?
Personal Responsibility: Discuss setting goals in prayer, work, and study.
Where do you need to be more proactive? Are the basics covered? Are you seeking out ways to intentionally pursue godliness in your life? How, Where, When? Is it on your calendar and in your budget?
Stewardship: Explore biblical principles of managing finances, time, and talents responsibly.
Do you recognize the accountability that you have before God in the decisions you make? What does that look like?
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III. Interdependence in the Body of Christ
A. Definition and Biblical Context
Interdependence: Recognizing that while believers are called to personal responsibility, they are also part of a larger, unified body where mutual support, accountability, and service are essential.
B. Passages on Interdependence
1 Corinthians 12:12-27 (NKJV):
“For as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of that one body, being many, are one body, so also is Christ...”
Illustrate how each believer has a unique role that contributes to the health of the whole body.
Which “spiritual gifts” do you see in your life that benefit the community, and how can you serve more effectively?
Where and how are you living out this ‘Body Life’ of the church? Sunday morning worship service is NOT enough. Are you intentionally seeking fellowship and investing in the life of your church family. Are you inviting them into your life?
Small groups, one on one meetings, microchurch gatherings in public and homes.
Galatians 6:2 (NKJV):
“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
Stress the call to support one another in times of difficulty.
How have you experienced God’s provision through the help of others? How can you extend that help?
Ephesians 4:15-16 (NKJV):
“But, speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ. From whom the whole body, joined and knit together by every joint with which it is equipped, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love.”
Emphasize mutual edification and the organic growth of the church as a family of believers.
In what ways can you contribute to the spiritual growth of your church family?
Intentionality is Key.
C. Application and Practical Steps
Fellowship and Community: Discuss the importance of small groups, church ministries, and accountability partnerships. Doesn’t happen accidently.
Serving Others: Outline practical opportunities for service in the local community and the global church. Local church, neighbor church, etc.
IV. Integrating Self-Reliance and Interdependence
Recognizing the Balance
Christians are called to be proactive and responsible stewards of their own lives (self-reliance) while also fully engaging in the support system provided by the Church (interdependence).
James 2:14-17 (NKJV):
“What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? … Thus faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.”
Faith must be expressed both individually and collectively.
How does your personal faith inspire you to serve the community, and in turn, how does community service strengthen your personal walk with Christ?
How do you maintain personal discipline while remaining open to community guidance?
“In what specific ways will you take responsibility for your personal growth this week, and how will you actively engage with your faith community?”
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Doctrine Today
Jesus and His Present Ministry
The Holy Spirit’s Role in Disciple Making.
Dispensational Baptist view of the End Times
Understanding Theology is Important
The Gospel and Ongoing Disciple Making
Church Role in Discerning God’s Will
Barriers to Disciple Making
1. Lack of Intentionality
Unclear Vision:Often, churches and individual believers may not have a clear, intentional vision or plan for disciple making. Without concrete goals, training, and accountability measures, disciple making can become an incidental outcome rather than a strategic priority.
Scriptural Neglect:Some ministries may focus heavily on evangelism while underemphasizing the lifelong process of nurturing, teaching, and mentoring new believers. This disconnect from the biblical mandate (e.g., Matthew 28:19-20) can lead to a superficial understanding of discipleship.
2. Cultural Individualism
Self-Reliance Over Community:Modern Western culture often emphasizes personal autonomy and self-reliance, which can contrast sharply with the biblical call to community (1 Corinthians 12:12-27). This individualism makes it more challenging to create environments where believers willingly submit to accountability, mentoring, and mutual growth.
Reluctance to Invest in Others:The desire for personal achievement and success may lead some to undervalue the long-term commitment required to disciple others, rather than focusing on immediate personal benefits or social status.
3. Time Constraints and Busyness
Competing Priorities:In today’s fast-paced society, individuals often struggle to balance work, family, and ministry responsibilities. This busyness can leave little room for the deep, personal interactions required for disciple making.
Over-Scheduled Lives:Constant digital engagement and overloaded schedules can lead to shallow relationships that lack the depth needed for transformative discipleship.
4. Lack of Effective Leadership and Training
Insufficient Leadership Development:Effective discipleship requires mentors who are themselves mature in their faith and skilled in relational dynamics. A shortage of trained leaders who can intentionally mentor others is a significant barrier.
Inadequate Resources:Churches may not invest adequately in training programs or create robust systems for leadership development, resulting in missed opportunities to equip believers for disciple making.
5. Digital Distractions and Superficial Engagement
Impact of Technology:While digital media offers innovative outreach tools, the overreliance on online interactions can lead to more shallow, transactional relationships that lack the depth and accountability found in face-to-face mentoring.
Social Media Culture:Constant engagement with social media may foster a culture of immediacy and quick approval, which can detract from the slow, formative process of true disciple making.
6. Fear of Judgment and Vulnerability
Relational Barriers:Discipleship involves vulnerability and accountability. Many believers may be reluctant to share their struggles or admit weaknesses due to the fear of judgment or rejection by peers.
Cultural Stigma:In both church settings and the broader society, there can be stigma associated with showing vulnerability, leading individuals to hide their need for growth rather than seeking relational support.
7. Theological Misunderstandings
Misconceptions About Grace and Works:Some may mistakenly view discipleship as a checklist of rules or a set of actions rather than a transformative process fueled by the Holy Spirit. This can lead to legalism on one end or laxity on the other.
Lack of Depth:Without a robust, well-balanced teaching on both grace and discipline, believers can misunderstand the essence of discipleship, which involves both receiving God’s unmerited favor and engaging in the process of sanctification.
8. Resource Limitations and Institutional Challenges
Financial and Infrastructural Constraints:Smaller churches or those in economically challenged areas might lack the resources to create comprehensive discipleship programs. Budget constraints, limited venues for small groups, or lack of access to quality teaching materials can impact effectiveness.
Institutional Resistance:Sometimes, long-standing institutional practices can resist change, making it difficult to adapt or innovate new methods for effective disciple making.
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As we follow Jesus there is a need to do our part and help others along the way. Engaging in the life of the church family often benefits you more than you expect, in ways that you don’t expect. The Body of Christ, when operating as it should helps you to grow and gives you opportunities to invest in helping others to grow. Your gifts are needed just as you need the gifts of others.
 
– “Thank you for listening today!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
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