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A Growth Mindset for Disciple Makers

rwh10may Ep.363 – Run With Horses Podcast – A Growth Mindset for Disciple Makers
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1. The Growth Mindset in a Christian Context
Paul challenged believers to put effort into their spiritual life. Change is a part of growth and we should desire to be more like Jesus. A Christian is filled with the Holy Spirit who is working to make us like Jesus. Change will happen. The joy is that we can embrace it and benefit from working with God instead of against Him. A growth-minded believer:
Welcomes challenges as opportunities for sanctification (James 1:2–4 NKJV).
Perseveres under trial, knowing endurance produces spiritual maturity (Romans 5:3–5 NKJV).
Seeks feedback and correction, recognizing rebuke refines faith (Proverbs 27:17 NKJV; Proverbs 12:1 NKJV).
Celebrates others’ growth, rejoicing when fellow believers flourish (Romans 12:15 NKJV).
2. Discipleship and the Great Commission
Jesus’ charge to “make disciples” frames our growth-oriented calling:
“Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”—Matthew 28:19–20 (NKJV)
A growth mindset fuels the “teaching” phase: we believe learners can grow in knowledge, obedience, and Christ-likeness. It also shapes our own approach, as we accept that our skills in evangelism, teaching, and mentoring improve through practice, prayer, and reliance on God.
3. Spiritual Growth is a Process
Scripture depicts growth as a journey:
“But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.”—2 Peter 3:18 (NKJV)
“Therefore, leaving the discussion of the elementary principles of Christ, let us go on to perfection…”—Hebrews 6:1 (NKJV)
“I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”—Philippians 3:14 (NKJV)
These passages underscore that maturity takes intentional effort—exactly the outworking of a growth mindset in the spiritual realm.
4. The “One Another’s” and Growth Mindset
Command
Scripture (NKJV)
Growth-Mindset Connection
Love one another
John 13:34–35
Encourages perseverance in relationships even when hard.
Serve one another
Galatians 5:13
Builds humility and stewards gifts for others’ growth.
Encourage one another
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Puts others first.
Admonish one another
Colossians 3:16; Romans 15:14
Welcomes correction for mutual sanctification.
Bear one another’s burdens
Galatians 6:2
Cultivates perseverance and compassion.
Spur one another on
Hebrews 10:24
Motivates toward good deeds and spiritual progress.
Pray for one another
James 5:16
Invites God’s transforming power in growth.
Be kind and tenderhearted
Ephesians 4:32
Gives mercy to those who need it, we all do!
Together, these “one another’s” form the relational soil in which a growth mindset flourishes—each believer both a learner and a teacher, giving and receiving grace, correction, encouragement, and accountability.
5. Practical Implications for Disciple Makers
Model a growth mindset by sharing your own struggles and progress in Bible study, prayer, or ministry skills.
Set incremental goals for disciples (e.g., memorizing Scripture, leading a small group), celebrating small wins to build confidence (Zechariah 4:10 NKJV).
Cultivate “one another” rhythms in your church—regular accountability groups, prayer partnerships, and service teams.
Teach the biblical process of growth—explain that sanctification involves trials, correction, and perseverance, rooted in passages like James 1:2–4 (NKJV) and Hebrews 12:11 (NKJV).
Encourage reflection—have disciples journal progress, confess weaknesses, and plan next steps, reinforcing that effort and dependence on Christ yield transformation.
 
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The Holy Spirit reshapes how we think about challenges, our own abilities, and the process of sanctification.
1. Confess Fixed-Mindset Thinking and Renew Your Mind
“I can’t change,” “I can’t do that.” and the like are big hinderances to spiritual growth. Lies need to be brought into the light and exchanged for truth. The question should be, “What is God doing? What does HE want me to do?” God empowers His people for His work.
“And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…”—Romans 12:2 (NKJV)
Practice:
Keep a “mindset journal.” When you catch yourself thinking “I’ll never grow in this,” write it down and pray: “Lord, show me Your truth here.”
Replace it with a Scriptural affirmation (“I can grow by God’s grace”—Philippians 4:13).
2. Meditate on God’s Word Daily
A growth mindset flourishes when immersed in truth. Scripture both reveals God’s power to change us and gives the roadmap.
Read, Think Deeply about,and put it into practice.
“…but his delight is in the law of the Lord, And in His law he meditates day and night.”—Psalm 1:2 (NKJV)
Practice:
Start with 5–10 minutes each morning reading a short passage (e.g. one chapter of Proverbs or the Gospels).
Ask: “What does this teach me about God’s promise to strengthen me?”
3. Pray for Wisdom and Perseverance
Growth requires divine enablement—both insight and the grit to keep going.
“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally…”—James 1:5 (NKJV)
“Count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.”—James 1:2–3 (NKJV)
Practice:
Begin each day by asking God for wisdom to see opportunities for growth and the patience to endure them.
When trials come (at work, in relationships, in ministry), thank Him for the refining work He intends.
4. Engage in Christian Community
Even if attendance has been spotty, intentional fellowship is vital for encouragement, accountability, and skill development.
“And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another…”—Hebrews 10:24–25 (NKJV)
“As iron sharpens iron, So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.”—Proverbs 27:17 (NKJV)
Practice:
Commit to attending at least one fellowship gathering (Sunday service, small group, men’s/women’s Bible study).
Ask a mature believer to meet monthly as a “growth partner” for prayer and feedback.
5. Set Small, Measurable Goals for Spiritual Disciplines
SMART goals
Growth rarely happens overnight. Incremental victories build confidence that God can grow you further.
“For who has despised the day of small things?…”—Zechariah 4:10 (NKJV)
Practice:
Choose one discipline (e.g., Scripture memory, daily prayer journaling, service) and set a tiny goal: memorize one verse a week, pray five minutes daily, serve once a month.
Celebrate each completion by recording it in your journal and thanking God.
6. Welcome Correction and Feedback
A growth mindset leans into rebuke, knowing it produces maturity.
“The ear that hears the rebukes of life Will abide among the wise.”—Proverbs 15:31 (NKJV)
“But exhort one another daily, while it is called ‘Today,’ lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.”—Hebrews 3:13 (NKJV)
Practice:
Invite a trusted mentor or friend to give you honest feedback on your spiritual habits.
When you receive correction, respond with “Thank you—help me understand how to improve.”
7. Practice Gratitude and Celebrate Others’ Growth
Focusing on progress—both yours and others’—reinforces a mindset that abilities can expand.
“Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.”—Romans 12:15 (NKJV)
“In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”—1 Thessalonians 5:18 (NKJV)
Practice:
Keep a “gratitude list” of spiritual wins you see in yourself and others.
Send a quick note or text to encourage a fellow believer when they share a breakthrough.
8. Rely on God’s Strength in Weakness
A growth mindset isn’t self-reliance; it’s dependence on Christ, who is at work in us.
“…when I am weak, then I am strong.”—2 Corinthians 12:10 (NKJV)
Practice:
In moments of discouragement (“I failed again…”), confess your weakness and ask Christ to work through it.
Memorize 2 Corinthians 12:9–10 and speak it aloud whenever you feel stuck.
 
 
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Doctrine Today
Jesus and His Present Ministry
The Holy Spirit’s Role in Disciple Making.
Dispensational Baptist view of the End Times
Understanding Theology is Important
The Gospel and Ongoing Disciple Making
Church Role in Discerning God’s Will
Barriers to Disciple Making
Spiritual Warfare
Jesus – Incarnation
God’s Sovereignty
God’s sovereignty means that God reigns over all things with perfect wisdom, power, and love, and nothing in our lives is outside His control.
1. God’s Sovereignty Brings Peace in Uncertainty
When life feels chaotic or unjust, God’s sovereignty assures us that nothing happens apart from His knowledge or plan.
“The Lord has established His throne in heaven,And His kingdom rules over all.”—Psalm 103:19 (NKJV)
“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.”—Romans 8:28 (NKJV)
Why it matters: Even suffering and confusion have purpose under God's rule. He’s not reacting—He’s reigning.
2. God’s Sovereignty Fuels Evangelism and Disciple-Making
Because God is sovereign over salvation, we can evangelize boldly, knowing He draws hearts to Himself.
“All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the one who comes to Me I will by no means cast out.”—John 6:37 (NKJV)
“No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him…”—John 6:44 (NKJV)
Why it matters: The results of disciple-making aren’t on your shoulders. You sow and water; God gives the increase (1 Corinthians 3:6–7 NKJV).
3. God’s Sovereignty Grounds Our Identity and Purpose
You are not random. You are created, saved, and called intentionally.
“Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed.And in Your book they all were written,The days fashioned for me,When as yet there were none of them.”—Psalm 139:16 (NKJV)
“For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.”—Ephesians 2:10 (NKJV)
Why it matters: Your life, your calling, and even your challenges are part of God’s good and sovereign plan.
4. God’s Sovereignty Produces Worship and Humility
When we recognize God is in control and we are not, we bow in awe and dependence.
“Yours, O Lord, is the greatness,The power and the glory,The victory and the majesty;For all that is in heaven and in earth is Yours;Yours is the kingdom, O Lord,And You are exalted as head over all.”—1 Chronicles 29:11 (NKJV)
“For My thoughts are not your thoughts,Nor are your ways My ways,” says the Lord.—Isaiah 55:8 (NKJV)
Why it matters: Sovereignty reminds us that God is God—and we are not.
5. God’s Sovereignty Guarantees His Promises Will Stand
We can believe God's Word with full assurance because no power can thwart His will.
“Indeed before the day was, I am He;And there is no one who can deliver out of My hand;I work, and who will reverse it?”—Isaiah 43:13 (NKJV)
“The counsel of the Lord stands forever,The plans of His heart to all generations.”—Psalm 33:11 (NKJV)
Why it matters: Our eternal hope is secure because it rests in God’s unshakable rule.
 
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It’s important for all of us to see the big picture in life. God IS working and He WILL complete His work in you. Daily remind yourself that God is drawing you to Himself and He invites you to be an active participant in your spiritual growth. Reject the lie that you can’t change. See the person God wants you to be and put real effort into doing your part, trusting that God will always do His part.
 
– “Thank you for listening today!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
Don’t be discouraged by the challenges you face. Keep your eyes on Jesus and embrace the opportunity to grow through the trial. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
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An Accountable Christian

rwh3may Ep.362 – Run With Horses Podcast – Accountability
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Do you find it difficult to stay on track and actually do the things you know you should do? Is consistency in exercise, healthy eating, regular prayer and daily time with God a problem for you? If so, you may benefit from seeking healthy, ongoing accountability as part of your spiritual journey toward Christ-likeness.
Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!
Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
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When the topic is accountability many people instantly run for the hills, fearing an heavy overbearing hand forcing them to do things they don’t want to do and hating every minute of it. Let me ease your mind, that is not Biblical accountability!
Biblical Accountability is a key tool in the life of a follower of Jesus who is seeking to grow spiritually and live according to biblical principles. It is something you invite into your relationships with other growing disciple of Jesus. We are on the same path and can help each other as we go. It’s not force, it’s mutual cooperation to intentionally move in the direction God is showing us.
1. Accountability to God
As followers of Jesus, we are ultimately accountable to God for how we live our lives. Every believer must recognize that their actions, thoughts, and behaviors are under God's authority.
Romans 14:12
2 Corinthians 5:10
2. Accountability to Fellow Believers
The Bible also teaches that believers should be accountable to one another. We are not meant to walk the Christian life alone. God designed the church as a community where believers help one another grow spiritually.
Galatians 6:1-2
James 5:16
3. Mutual Accountability in Spiritual Growth
Spiritual growth requires intentionality, and part of that is having people in our lives who can help hold us accountable in our pursuit of holiness and spiritual maturity.
Hebrews 10:24-25
Proverbs 27:17
4. Examples of Accountability in the Bible
Nathan and David: A powerful example of accountability can be seen in the relationship between the prophet Nathan and King David. After David's sin with Bathsheba, God sent Nathan to confront David about his sin. Nathan’s courage to hold David accountable ultimately led to David’s repentance and restoration (2 Samuel 12:1-14). This example highlights how accountability often involves speaking the truth in love, even when it's difficult.
Paul and Peter: The apostle Paul held Peter accountable in Galatians 2:11-14, when Peter’s actions were inconsistent with the gospel. Peter was initially eating with Gentiles, but when certain Jewish believers arrived, he withdrew, fearing what they might think. Paul publicly confronted him, saying, “But when I saw that they were not straightforward about the truth of the gospel, I said to Peter before them all, ‘If you, being a Jew, live in the manner of Gentiles and not as the Jews, why do you compel Gentiles to live as Jews?’” (Galatians 2:14). This shows that accountability sometimes involves a public rebuke when necessary to uphold the truth of the gospel.
Jesus and His Disciples: Jesus modeled accountability in His relationships with His disciples. He often rebuked them for their lack of faith or for misunderstanding His mission (e.g., Matthew 16:23, when He rebuked Peter, "Get behind Me, Satan!"). However, He also encouraged them to support each other, as seen in John 13:34-35, where He commanded them to love one another as He had loved them. The accountability Jesus modeled was always rooted in love and truth.
5. Personal Responsibility and the Role of the Holy Spirit
Ultimately, the Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in the life of a believer as they grow spiritually. The Holy Spirit convicts believers of sin, guides them into truth, and empowers them to live out the Christian life. Accountability to the Holy Spirit is a matter of responding to His promptings and seeking His strength to live faithfully.
John 14:26
Romans 8:13
 
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Seeking out accountability is a crucial aspect of spiritual growth for several reasons. It helps believers stay on track in their walk with God, provides encouragement, and ensures that they are living according to biblical principles.
1. Why Should a Person Seek Out Accountability?
a. Prevents Spiritual Drift
Accountability acts as a safeguard against spiritual drift. Without accountability, a person might subtly slide away from their spiritual disciplines, make compromises, or even fall into sin without realizing it. Having someone who can help point out blind spots and encourage continued growth helps keep a believer anchored in their faith.
Proverbs 4:23
b. Helps Resist Temptation
We all face temptations, and sometimes, the temptation to sin feels overwhelming. Accountability provides a powerful weapon to fight against temptation, as having someone to confess struggles to and ask for prayer can make a huge difference in overcoming sin.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
c. Provides Encouragement
Christian life is not a solo journey. Having others to encourage and challenge you is crucial for perseverance, especially when trials come. Accountability relationships are a source of encouragement when things feel difficult or when you're unsure about the next steps in your spiritual walk.
Hebrews 10:24-25
d. Fosters Humility and Repentance
Having someone who can challenge us or confront us when we’re in the wrong helps us maintain a heart of humility and openness. Accountability is not just about staying in line but also about being willing to acknowledge our faults and make changes when needed.
James 5:16
2. How Does Accountability Help a Person Grow?
a. Encourages Discipline
Spiritual growth requires intentionality and discipline. Accountability partners help set goals and hold each other to those goals. This might involve commitments to prayer, Bible reading, serving others, or other spiritual disciplines. Having someone to check in with keeps us motivated and consistent.
1 Timothy 4:7-8
b. Provides Insight and Perspective
Accountability often brings perspective. We can be blind to our own shortcomings or struggles, but an accountability partner may see things we don’t. They can offer valuable advice, wisdom, or scriptural insights that help us grow.
Proverbs 27:17
c. Strengthens Faith
When believers come together for mutual accountability, their faith grows. Seeing others live out their faith and share their experiences can inspire us to deepen our own commitment to God. It fosters a sense of camaraderie and strengthens our resolve to stay faithful.
Romans 1:12
d. Promotes Holiness and Christlikeness
Accountability helps keep believers focused on the goal of becoming more like Christ. The process of confessing sin, receiving correction, and being encouraged to pursue holiness creates an environment where believers can grow in their sanctification.
Philippians 2:1-2
3. How Can a Person Go About Finding Ongoing Accountability Relationships?
a. Start with Prayer
Before seeking accountability, it’s important to pray for guidance. Ask God to lead you to the right people—those who are spiritually mature and trustworthy, and who will help you grow in your faith.
James 1:5
b. Look for Like-minded Individuals
Seek people who are also committed to growing spiritually and living out biblical principles. Accountability works best when both parties are serious about their spiritual growth. This can include fellow church members, small group participants, or individuals from a Bible study.
2 Corinthians 6:14
c. Join a Small Group or Bible Study
Small groups, Bible studies, or discipleship groups are great places to build deeper relationships where mutual accountability can happen. These groups provide a natural environment for openness, prayer, and spiritual growth.
Acts 2:42
d. Approach Someone with Humility
If you don’t already have an accountability partner, don’t be afraid to approach someone you respect spiritually and ask if they would be willing to meet regularly to hold each other accountable. Be honest about what you’re seeking and humble in your approach.
Proverbs 15:22
e. Be Open and Transparent
The success of accountability relationships depends on openness and honesty. Be willing to share your struggles and your victories, and be open to both encouragement and correction.
Ephesians 4:25
Accountability is Healthy Relationships
At its core, talking about growth issues together.
What we need, how we do it, what the stumbling blocks are. Asking how it’s going is a rminder to keep trying!
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Doctrine Today
Jesus - Incarnation
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– “Thank you for listening today!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
Don’t be discouraged by the challenges you face. Keep your eyes on Jesus and embrace the opportunity to grow through the trial. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
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Resilient Faith

rwh26april Ep.361 – Run With Horses Podcast – Resilient Faith
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Author pages with links to all books on Amazon.
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Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!
Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
Resilience is the ability to withstand, recover and even thrive in the midst of life's challenges while trusting God to accomplish His work. Resilience is really about our Faith. It is the strength and endurance to keep pressing forward in the face of adversity, maintaining faith in God's sovereignty and goodness. Resilience is not simply about surviving difficulty, but about growing spiritually and becoming more Christ-like in the process.
Biblical Understanding of Resilience
Patience Matures Our Faith: James 1:2-4 See trials as opportunities for spiritual growth:
Resilience is tied to patience developed through trials. Instead of letting trials break us, we allow them to refine and mature our faith, making us more like Jesus.
God’s Strength in Our Weakness: The Apostle Paul exemplifies resilience in 2 Corinthians 12:9-10:
Resilience in the Christian life is not about our own strength, but about relying on God’s strength. Our weakness becomes the vehicle for God's power to work through us, glorifying God and accomplishing His Will.
Imitate Christ's Example: Hebrews 12:1-2, Follow Jesus' example of enduring the cross, all for the joy set before Him:
Jesus endured because He had an eternal perspective. Resilience, for the follower of Christ, involves fixing our eyes on the hope and reward that await us in eternity. Tis life is the journey that God uses to prepare us for eternity with Him.
Trusting God’s Promises Leads to Hope: Romans 5:3-5 :
Hope is really important when we face challenges. And there is always Hope in Jesus! Trials refine our character and deepen our relationship with God. Knowing Him and His purposes, ultimately makes us more resilient in our Journey of Faith.
Resilience and Discipleship
In the life of a believer, resilience is directly connected to discipleship and spiritual growth. Discipleship is not just about learning doctrine or performing religious duties; it is about becoming more like Jesus. As we endure trials with faith and patience, we grow in spiritual maturity and learn to depend on God more fully.
Resilience Shapes Character: As we persevere through challenges, our character is refined, and we learn to love, trust, and obey God more fully. Romans 5:3-5 shows that tribulation produces perseverance, which leads to stronger character and unshakable hope.
Resilience Cultivates Faithfulness: Discipleship is about the journey of following God daily in every circumstances. 1 Peter 1:6-7 reminds us that our faith is tested, and once proven, brings glory to God:
As we remain faithful under trial, we demonstrate the genuineness of our faith. This faith, Real, tested and proven, will bring glory to God.
Spiritual Growth Through Trials: The process of growing as a disciple requires us to be resilient. Trials are the training ground for spiritual maturity if you are a disciple of Jesus. He never promised an easy path!
But He promises that it would be worth it in the end.
The Role of the Holy Spirit in Resilience
The Holy Spirit is integral to developing resilience. Romans 8:11 speaks of the power of the Holy Spirit to give life and strength to believers:
The same Spirit who raised Jesus from the dead enables believers to live with endurance, overcoming obstacles and remaining faithful in trials. Prayer and trusting God to work when our strength is gone are both Key for developing the abiity to get up every time life knocks you down.
Resilience Keeps You On The Path To Christ-likeness
As we endure hardship, we grow in patience, character, and hope, which ultimately leads to greater spiritual maturity. This process is central to ongoing discipleship, as it shapes us into the image of Christ.
A disciple of Jesus is on a continual journey of growing in faith, learning to rely on God's strength daily, and persevering through life’s trials. Both disciples and disciple makers have a role to play in this journey of Faith. Spiritual strength is nurtured through the spiritual disciplines as we deepen our relationship with God, and learn to trust in His faithfulness.
How To Develop Resilience
See the Big Picture: God is at work in the world and trials are normal and natural. The goal is not to avoid them but to grow through them. Let God accomplish His work in your life. God opens doors for ministry through our personal trials, look for them!
Do everything that you can to grow and mature your Faith! Be intentional about life, particularly your spiritual life.
Embrace God’s Word: One of the foundational ways a disciple develops resilience is through a deeper understanding of and trust in God’s Word. The Bible gives an eternal perspective for enduring trials. By studying Scripture, disciples learn what God is doing and learn to trust His promises, which gives them the strength to persevere.
Psalm 119:50:
A Deeper Relationship with God: Resilience is nurtured through a close relationship with God. Everything that we do to draw closer to Him helps prepare us for the next challenge. Prayer, meditation and memorizaton of the Bible and time with God’s family all strengthen our trust in God’s provision, wisdom, and presence. Jesus modeled these in His own life, we should do no less.
Philippians 4:6-7:
Through Reliance on God’s Strength (Not Our Own): Resilience is not about self-sufficiency, but about relying on God’s strength. The Apostle Paul was a model of this truth, understanding that his weakness allowed God’s strength to be more clearly displayed.
2 Corinthians 12:9-10:
A disciple develops resilience by recognizing that through their weakness that God’s power is most evident. This humility and dependence on God’s grace is key to enduring trials with perseverance.
Through Practicing Obedience and Faithfulness in Small Things: Resilience is developed when a disciple learns to be faithful in the small things, trusting God in everyday life. Obedience, even in seemingly insignificant matters, builds the foundation for enduring greater trials.
Luke 16:10:
By being faithful in small matters, a disciple strengthens their ability to endure more significant trials and challenges.
Through Fellowship with Other Believers: Resilience is also cultivated in the context of community. Believers encourage one another, pray for one another, and share in each other’s struggles. Being part of a supportive Christian community strengthens a disciple’s ability to persevere.
Hebrews 10:24-25:
Fellowship provides encouragement and accountability, helping disciples remain resilient as they navigate life’s challenges.
How a Disciple Maker Helps Others Develop Resilience
A disciple maker has a unique role in helping others grow in resilience by walking alongside them, providing guidance, and encouraging them to press on in their faith. Here’s how a disciple maker can help others develop resilience:
Modeling Resilience through Personal Example: One of the most powerful ways a disciple maker can encourage resilience is by modeling it in their own life. When a disciple maker faces trials and shows how they rely on God’s strength, it serves as a powerful testimony for others to follow.
1 Thessalonians 1:6-7:
Teaching the Importance of Perspective: Disciple makers can help others develop resilience by teaching them to have an eternal perspective on their trials. They can point others to the hope of eternal life and the ultimate victory that awaits, even in the midst of hardship.
Romans 8:18:
By helping others keep an eternal perspective, disciple makers teach them to view their trials in light of God’s promises and the hope of future glory.
Encouraging the Practice of Spiritual Disciplines: Disciple makers should encourage the regular practice of spiritual disciplines—prayer, Bible study, worship, and fasting—as these practices strengthen the disciple’s spiritual resilience.
Colossians 2:6-7:
Spiritual disciplines help to deepen a disciple’s relationship with God, which builds the foundation for resilience.
Providing Encouragement and Accountability: A disciple maker should be a source of encouragement and accountability, especially in difficult times. They can remind the disciple of God’s faithfulness, pray for them, and offer counsel that points them back to Christ.
Galatians 6:2:
Helping others bear their burdens is an essential part of developing resilience. A disciple maker should walk alongside their disciples, offering support, encouragement, and wisdom during trials.
Helping Disciplines Focus on God’s Promises: Disciple makers can help others develop resilience by pointing them back to God’s promises in times of hardship. The promises of God’s presence, provision, and protection provide a firm foundation for resilience.
Isaiah 41:10:
A disciple maker can continually remind those they are discipling of the faithfulness of God, helping them to trust in His promises during difficult times.
Conclusion
A disciple of Jesus develops resilience by deeply engaging with God’s Word, prayer, dependence on God’s strength, obedience, and fellowship with other believers. A disciple maker helps others develop resilience by modeling it, teaching the importance of perspective, encouraging spiritual disciplines, providing support, and focusing on God’s promises. Together, these practices foster a strong, enduring faith that enables believers to press on through trials and grow more like Christ in the process.
Doctrine Today
Spiritual Warfare
 
It’s not easy to keep going when the journey is long and tough. The good news is that Jesus understands and takes the journey with us. You never have to face the trials alone. Stand tall and lean on Jesus in the middle of Life’s storms, trusting that He is growing you into the person you need to be.
 
– “Thank you for listening today!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
Don’t be discouraged by the challenges you face. Keep your eyes on Jesus and embrace the opportunity to grow through the trial. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."

Balancing Self-Reliance and Interdependence

rwh19april Ep.360 – Run With Horses Podcast – Balancing Self-Reliance and Interdependence
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Author pages with links to all books on Amazon.
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Do you go it alone or do you walk through life with others? It’s not an either/ or proposition, it’s both! There are areas where you definitely have to pull you own weight but often, much more often than you may think, we are supposed to help each other through life. Today, we are thinking about self-reliance and interdependence for disciples of Jesus.
Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!
Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
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B. Overview
Scripture calls believers to cultivate personal accountability (self-reliance) while actively engaging in a community of faith (interdependence).
Key Themes:
Biblical foundations for self-reliance in areas like personal spiritual growth, work, and stewardship.
Scriptural mandates for living in community, bearing one another’s burdens, and using spiritual gifts for the common good.
C. Context
Emphasize believer’s individual responsibility before God.
Highlight the importance of local church fellowship as a way of fulfilling our mission together.
D. Today I want you to consider:
What does “self-reliance” mean in your personal walk with Christ?
How do you see interdependence playing a role in your local church or community?
II. Self-Reliance in the Christian Life
A. Definition and Biblical Context
Self-reliance: Cultivating personal responsibility in one’s faith, work, finances, and spiritual growth, recognizing that while God provides strength, He also calls us to be diligent stewards of our lives.
B. Passages on Self-Reliance
Proverbs 6:6-8 (NKJV):
“Go to the ant, you sluggard;Consider her ways, and be wise.Which having no guide, overseer, or ruler,Provideth her supplies in the summer,And gathers her food in the harvest.”
Encourage proactive effort and preparedness in everyday life.
In what areas of your life can you emulate the ant’s industriousness?
Galatians 6:4-5 (NKJV):
“But let each one examine his own work, and then he shall have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. For each one shall bear his own load.”
Highlight the importance of personal evaluation and responsibility.
How can you take ownership of your spiritual growth while avoiding pride?
Philippians 4:13 (NKJV):
“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
Emphasize that personal achievement is rooted in Christ’s strength working through us.
How does relying on Christ’s strength change your approach to personal challenges?
C. Practical Steps
Self-Examination: Encourage daily devotional practices and self-reflection.
How are you taking responsibility for your life now? What practical actions show that you are serious about your spiritual life and responsibilities before God?
Personal Responsibility: Discuss setting goals in prayer, work, and study.
Where do you need to be more proactive? Are the basics covered? Are you seeking out ways to intentionally pursue godliness in your life? How, Where, When? Is it on your calendar and in your budget?
Stewardship: Explore biblical principles of managing finances, time, and talents responsibly.
Do you recognize the accountability that you have before God in the decisions you make? What does that look like?
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III. Interdependence in the Body of Christ
A. Definition and Biblical Context
Interdependence: Recognizing that while believers are called to personal responsibility, they are also part of a larger, unified body where mutual support, accountability, and service are essential.
B. Passages on Interdependence
1 Corinthians 12:12-27 (NKJV):
“For as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of that one body, being many, are one body, so also is Christ...”
Illustrate how each believer has a unique role that contributes to the health of the whole body.
Which “spiritual gifts” do you see in your life that benefit the community, and how can you serve more effectively?
Where and how are you living out this ‘Body Life’ of the church? Sunday morning worship service is NOT enough. Are you intentionally seeking fellowship and investing in the life of your church family. Are you inviting them into your life?
Small groups, one on one meetings, microchurch gatherings in public and homes.
Galatians 6:2 (NKJV):
“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
Stress the call to support one another in times of difficulty.
How have you experienced God’s provision through the help of others? How can you extend that help?
Ephesians 4:15-16 (NKJV):
“But, speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ. From whom the whole body, joined and knit together by every joint with which it is equipped, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love.”
Emphasize mutual edification and the organic growth of the church as a family of believers.
In what ways can you contribute to the spiritual growth of your church family?
Intentionality is Key.
C. Application and Practical Steps
Fellowship and Community: Discuss the importance of small groups, church ministries, and accountability partnerships. Doesn’t happen accidently.
Serving Others: Outline practical opportunities for service in the local community and the global church. Local church, neighbor church, etc.
IV. Integrating Self-Reliance and Interdependence
Recognizing the Balance
Christians are called to be proactive and responsible stewards of their own lives (self-reliance) while also fully engaging in the support system provided by the Church (interdependence).
James 2:14-17 (NKJV):
“What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? … Thus faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.”
Faith must be expressed both individually and collectively.
How does your personal faith inspire you to serve the community, and in turn, how does community service strengthen your personal walk with Christ?
How do you maintain personal discipline while remaining open to community guidance?
“In what specific ways will you take responsibility for your personal growth this week, and how will you actively engage with your faith community?”
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Doctrine Today
Jesus and His Present Ministry
The Holy Spirit’s Role in Disciple Making.
Dispensational Baptist view of the End Times
Understanding Theology is Important
The Gospel and Ongoing Disciple Making
Church Role in Discerning God’s Will
Barriers to Disciple Making
1. Lack of Intentionality
Unclear Vision:Often, churches and individual believers may not have a clear, intentional vision or plan for disciple making. Without concrete goals, training, and accountability measures, disciple making can become an incidental outcome rather than a strategic priority.
Scriptural Neglect:Some ministries may focus heavily on evangelism while underemphasizing the lifelong process of nurturing, teaching, and mentoring new believers. This disconnect from the biblical mandate (e.g., Matthew 28:19-20) can lead to a superficial understanding of discipleship.
2. Cultural Individualism
Self-Reliance Over Community:Modern Western culture often emphasizes personal autonomy and self-reliance, which can contrast sharply with the biblical call to community (1 Corinthians 12:12-27). This individualism makes it more challenging to create environments where believers willingly submit to accountability, mentoring, and mutual growth.
Reluctance to Invest in Others:The desire for personal achievement and success may lead some to undervalue the long-term commitment required to disciple others, rather than focusing on immediate personal benefits or social status.
3. Time Constraints and Busyness
Competing Priorities:In today’s fast-paced society, individuals often struggle to balance work, family, and ministry responsibilities. This busyness can leave little room for the deep, personal interactions required for disciple making.
Over-Scheduled Lives:Constant digital engagement and overloaded schedules can lead to shallow relationships that lack the depth needed for transformative discipleship.
4. Lack of Effective Leadership and Training
Insufficient Leadership Development:Effective discipleship requires mentors who are themselves mature in their faith and skilled in relational dynamics. A shortage of trained leaders who can intentionally mentor others is a significant barrier.
Inadequate Resources:Churches may not invest adequately in training programs or create robust systems for leadership development, resulting in missed opportunities to equip believers for disciple making.
5. Digital Distractions and Superficial Engagement
Impact of Technology:While digital media offers innovative outreach tools, the overreliance on online interactions can lead to more shallow, transactional relationships that lack the depth and accountability found in face-to-face mentoring.
Social Media Culture:Constant engagement with social media may foster a culture of immediacy and quick approval, which can detract from the slow, formative process of true disciple making.
6. Fear of Judgment and Vulnerability
Relational Barriers:Discipleship involves vulnerability and accountability. Many believers may be reluctant to share their struggles or admit weaknesses due to the fear of judgment or rejection by peers.
Cultural Stigma:In both church settings and the broader society, there can be stigma associated with showing vulnerability, leading individuals to hide their need for growth rather than seeking relational support.
7. Theological Misunderstandings
Misconceptions About Grace and Works:Some may mistakenly view discipleship as a checklist of rules or a set of actions rather than a transformative process fueled by the Holy Spirit. This can lead to legalism on one end or laxity on the other.
Lack of Depth:Without a robust, well-balanced teaching on both grace and discipline, believers can misunderstand the essence of discipleship, which involves both receiving God’s unmerited favor and engaging in the process of sanctification.
8. Resource Limitations and Institutional Challenges
Financial and Infrastructural Constraints:Smaller churches or those in economically challenged areas might lack the resources to create comprehensive discipleship programs. Budget constraints, limited venues for small groups, or lack of access to quality teaching materials can impact effectiveness.
Institutional Resistance:Sometimes, long-standing institutional practices can resist change, making it difficult to adapt or innovate new methods for effective disciple making.
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As we follow Jesus there is a need to do our part and help others along the way. Engaging in the life of the church family often benefits you more than you expect, in ways that you don’t expect. The Body of Christ, when operating as it should helps you to grow and gives you opportunities to invest in helping others to grow. Your gifts are needed just as you need the gifts of others.
 
– “Thank you for listening today!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
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How's Your Self-Discipline?

rwh12april Ep.359 – Run With Horses Podcast – How's Your Self-Discipline?
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Author pages with links to all books on Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BCSDDVLB – James Norman Smith
https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BMGW51FW – Susan Jane Smith
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Following Jesus was never meant to be easy. Self-discipline is a key component of a Christian's walk with Christ, especially for those who are striving to be obedient to His call to be disciple makers. Self-discipline - today we look at what it is and what it matters.
Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!
Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”
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Biblical theology, emphasizes holiness, and sanctification. Self-discipline is an essential piece of the puzzle for growing your faith, honoring God, and becoming more like Christ.
1. Self-Discipline is Essential for Spiritual Growth
The Bible teaches that following Jesus involves ongoing transformation. Self-discipline enables a Christian to maintain focus on spiritual growth and maturity. This growth is not passive; it requires intentional effort to discipline oneself in the faith.
1 Corinthians 9:24-27 (NKJV): “Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may obtain it. And everyone who competes for the prize is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a perishable crown, but we for an imperishable crown. Therefore I run thus: not with uncertainty. Thus I fight: not as one who beats the air. But I discipline my body and bring it into subjection, lest, when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified.”
In this passage, Paul emphasizes the importance of self-discipline in the Christian life. Like an athlete training for a race, the believer must discipline their body and actions to ensure they live a life pleasing to God. This passage also highlights that discipline is necessary for not only spiritual progress but also for preventing spiritual failure.
2. Self-Discipline in Fleeing Sin and Pursuing Holiness
Self-discipline is crucial for resisting temptation and living a holy life. Christians are called to reject sin and live in a way that honors God, and this requires discipline in thoughts, words, and actions.
1 Timothy 4:7-8 (NKJV): “But reject profane and old wives’ fables, and exercise yourself toward godliness. For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come.”
Paul urges Timothy to “exercise” toward godliness, which speaks to the discipline of growing in spiritual maturity. This is contrasted with physical exercise, which has limited benefits, while spiritual discipline has eternal value.
Titus 2:11-12 (NKJV): “For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men, teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly in the present age.”
The grace of God teaches the believer to deny sinful desires and live disciplined lives, demonstrating the power of grace in enabling self-control.
3. Self-Discipline in the Use of Time and Resources
Christians are called to be stewards of their time, talents, and resources. Practicing self-discipline helps them use these gifts in a way that honors God and furthers His kingdom.
Ephesians 5:15-16 (NKJV): “See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil.”
This passage speaks to the importance of using time wisely. Self-discipline involves making choices that align with God’s will, ensuring that the believer is living for eternal purposes rather than temporary desires.
4. Self-Discipline in Prayer and Bible Study
A disciplined prayer life and consistent study of Scripture are vital for growth in the faith. Christians must intentionally set aside time to communicate with God and immerse themselves in His Word.
Matthew 26:41 (NKJV): “Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.”
Jesus speaks to the importance of watchfulness and prayer to avoid falling into temptation. Self-discipline in maintaining a life of prayer is necessary for strength against sin.
2 Timothy 2:15 (NKJV): “Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.”
This emphasizes the discipline required in studying Scripture. A believer who wants to rightly divide the Word must be diligent and disciplined in their study.
5. Self-Discipline in Following Jesus' Example
Lastly, the ultimate example of self-discipline is Jesus Himself. He lived a life of perfect self-discipline, obeying the Father’s will even to the point of death on the cross.
Luke 9:23 (NKJV): “Then He said to them all, ‘If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.’”
To follow Jesus is to practice daily self-discipline, denying one's own desires and submitting to the will of God.
Conclusion
For anyone who is striving to follow Jesus, self-discipline is not merely about willpower, but it is a response to God's grace and a necessary aspect of sanctification. It requires a commitment to spiritual practices, a resistance to temptation, and an ongoing pursuit of holiness. Through self-discipline, believers not only grow in Christ-likeness but also glorify God in all aspects of their lives.
Self-discipline is both a duty and a privilege, empowered by the Holy Spirit and essential to the believer's walk with Christ. It is through discipline that Christians can live according to God's Word and fulfill their calling to be holy and set apart for His purposes.
 
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Developing self-discipline as a follower of Jesus requires intentional effort and commitment. A commitment to the spiritual disciplines can be a big part of the process of growing as a follower of Jesus. These disciplines are practices that help a believer grow in their relationship with God, resist temptation, and align their lives more closely with His will. In the context of following Jesus, self-discipline is rooted in God's grace but also requires the active participation of the believer in cultivating habits that foster spiritual growth. The spiritual disciplines are habits that help us keep our focus. Prayer, Bible reading, meditation and study Silence, Solitude, Community, Fasting. These are habits that help you build a strong spiritual life. We have talked about them before and will come back to them again but for now, Know that studying and practicing the spiritual disciplines should be a part of your spiritual life.
 
Developing personal self-discipline is a key aspect of spiritual growth and daily life, especially for a Christian who is striving to follow Jesus. While spiritual disciplines like prayer, Bible study, and worship are vital, personal self-discipline in everyday activities also plays a significant role in the overall process. Here are practical steps that can help someone develop or increase their personal self-discipline:
1. Set Clear Goals and Priorities
Having clear goals allows you to stay focused and motivated. Self-discipline thrives when you have a sense of purpose. Start by determining what is most important to you, both in your spiritual life and personal life.
Actionable Step: Write down your goals—spiritual, personal, and professional—and prioritize them. Break them down into smaller, achievable tasks. For example, if your goal is to read through the Bible in a year, break it into daily reading plans.
2. Create a Routine or Schedule
A structured routine helps build self-discipline because it instills consistency. When you have a set schedule, you're less likely to be distracted by fleeting desires or emotions.
Actionable Step: Create a daily or weekly schedule that includes time for prayer, Bible study, work, exercise, meals, and sleep. Setting fixed times for these activities helps cultivate habits and limits procrastination. NEXT ACTION. DO IT.
Proverbs 12:1 (NKJV): “Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, But he who hates correction is stupid.”A disciplined schedule allows you to grow in knowledge and wisdom, as it gives you time to learn and apply godly principles.
3. Develop Healthy Habits
Small, healthy habits can lead to big changes. Good habits can gradually transform your life and build the foundation for self-discipline. These habits can include morning routines, exercise, and eating habits. Whole Life stewardship requires WHOLE LIFE DISCIPLINE.
Actionable Step: Start by adopting one healthy habit at a time, such as drinking water in the morning, avoiding social media first thing, or exercising regularly. Focus on consistency, and gradually build other habits on top of that.
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (NKJV): “Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.”Taking care of your body through healthy habits is a way to honor God and develop discipline.
4. Practice Accountability
Accountability is a powerful tool in developing self-discipline. When you know someone is holding you accountable, it increases your motivation and helps you stay on track. You aren’t in this alone.
Actionable Step: Find an accountability partner or a group that shares your spiritual goals. This could be a prayer partner, a mentor, or a small group from your church. Regular check-ins and mutual encouragement can strengthen your resolve.
Proverbs 27:17 (NKJV): “As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.”Accountability helps keep you on the path of discipline and encourages you to grow together with others.
5. Learn to Say No
Self-discipline often involves making hard choices and learning to say no to things that are not aligned with your goals or that hinder your progress. This applies to both time management and spiritual focus. You must be clear on God’s calling for you life and let nothing hinder your pursuit of Him and His mission.
Actionable Step: Practice saying no to distractions, whether it's binge-watching TV, spending excessive time on social media, or even good things that might prevent you from focusing on what matters most, like spending time with God or with family.
Matthew 5:37 (NKJV): “But let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’ For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.”Learning to say no when necessary is part of being disciplined, especially when it comes to guarding your time and energy.
6. Eliminate Distractions
Distractions are one of the biggest barriers to self-discipline. It’s difficult to stay focused when you're surrounded by temptations or interruptions. By intentionally reducing distractions, you can stay on task and make better use of your time. Remember Mary and Martha. There is one thing you need.
Actionable Step: Identify areas of your life where you tend to get distracted—such as your phone, the internet, or unproductive relationships—and take steps to minimize those distractions. For instance, you could put your phone in another room while reading your Bible or studying.
Matthew 6:6 (NKJV): “But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.”Finding a quiet, distraction-free space for prayer or study is essential in maintaining self-discipline.
7. Take Breaks and Rest
Self-discipline doesn’t mean working yourself to exhaustion. Taking breaks is important for mental and physical well-being. Rest allows you to recharge and maintain focus over time.
Actionable Step: Schedule regular breaks throughout the day to rest and recharge. Ensure that you also take time off from work and other obligations to rest, whether it’s a weekly Sabbath, a day off, or short breaks during the day.
Exodus 20:8-10 (NKJV): “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord your God. In it you shall do no work...”Resting is essential for spiritual, emotional, and physical renewal, and it’s a discipline that promotes a balanced life.
8. Practice Self-Control in Small Things
Building self-discipline in small areas of life can create a ripple effect that leads to greater self-control in bigger things. Start with simple acts of self-restraint, and work up to more challenging areas.
Actionable Step: Practice self-control by limiting small indulgences, such as sweets, caffeine, or unnecessary spending. This builds the muscle of self-discipline, which will help in more significant areas like temptation or long-term goals.
Galatians 5:22-23 (NKJV): “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.”Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit that grows as we practice it in daily life.
9. Celebrate Small Wins
It’s easy to become discouraged if you’re only focused on long-term results. Acknowledge and celebrate small victories along the way to stay motivated.
Actionable Step: When you accomplish a goal or stick to a discipline for a certain period, reward yourself with something meaningful—whether it’s a small treat, a break, or a time of reflection and gratitude.
1 Corinthians 9:24 (NKJV): “Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may obtain it.”Recognizing progress along the way encourages perseverance and motivates you to continue toward your final goal.
10. Seek God’s Help and Grace
Ultimately, self-discipline is not about relying solely on your strength, but on God's grace. Ask the Lord to help you develop discipline, giving you the strength to overcome weaknesses and the wisdom to prioritize what matters most.
Philippians 4:13 (NKJV): “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”Depend on God’s strength to help you grow in discipline, especially when things seem too difficult.
Conclusion:
Developing self-discipline is a process that requires intentional action and reliance on God’s grace. By setting clear goals, creating a structured routine, developing healthy habits, and seeking accountability, you can grow in self-discipline and make progress in your personal and spiritual life. Keep focusing on small, practical steps while relying on God's strength and guidance through it all.
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Doctrine Today
 
Church Role in Discerning God’s Will
 
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How are you doing at keeping those hard tasks on your schedule? Doing the right thing is seldom easy and it often takes more effort that we would like. But it is worth it do be disciplined and maintain our focus. When you fail, start over, persistence is a big part of discipline!
– “Thank you for listening today!
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
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Emotional Intelligence for Disciple Makers

Ep.358 – Run With Horses Podcast – Emotional Intelligence for Disciple Makers
Podcast: rwh.podbean.comWebsite: www.runwithhorses.netYoutube: https://youtube.com/@rwhpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/RWHpodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rwh_podcastTwitter: https://twitter.com/RWH_podcast
Author pages with links to all books on Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BCSDDVLB – James Norman Smith
https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BMGW51FW – Susan Jane Smith
Part 1:Emotional Intelligence for Disciple Makers
1. Introduction
Introduce the concept of Emotional Intelligence (EI) and its relevance in the Christian life, particularly in leadership and discipleship.
2. What is Emotional Intelligence?
Definition of Emotional Intelligence:Emotional Intelligence is the ability to recognize, understand, and manage our own emotions and the emotions of others. It involves four key components:
Self-awareness: Recognizing one's emotions and their impact.
Self-control: Managing and controlling one's emotional responses.
Empathy: Understanding the emotions of others and responding appropriately.
Compassion: The desire to help
Social skills: Building relationships and communicating effectively.
Example:
Self-awareness: A disciple maker who can recognize their frustration with a fellow believer and chooses to address it in a godly manner rather than reacting impulsively.
Empathy: Listening attentively to someone in pain, offering comfort as Christ would, instead of offering quick solutions or judgments.
Biblical Example of Emotional Intelligence:
Jesus’ Emotional Intelligence: Jesus exhibited all four aspects of EI.
Self-awareness and Self-regulation: In Mark 14:34–36, Jesus shows emotional vulnerability, yet chooses God's will over His feelings.
Mark 14: 32
Empathy, Compassion and Social Skills: Jesus empathized with people, showing compassion. In John 11:33–36, He wept with Mary and Martha at the death of Lazarus, showing deep emotional connection and compassion.
3. Why is Emotional Intelligence Important for Christians?
Discipleship and Emotional Intelligence:
Emotional intelligence helps disciple makers understand the emotional state and needs of others. Effective disciple making requires patience, compassion, and the ability to manage one's own emotions.
Biblical Foundation:
Ephesians 4:2-3 –
This passage emphasizes emotional control (lowliness, gentleness) and empathy (bearing with one another).
Developing Relationships with Others: Jesus’ ministry was deeply relational, and He connected emotionally with people.
Matthew 9:36 –
Jesus ability to understand and connect was key to His effective ministry and discipleship.
Practical Application for the Church:
Proverbs 15:1 –
Galatians 6:2 –
4. Thinking Deeply
Reflect on:
A time when they experienced emotional stress in ministry or discipleship.
How emotional intelligence (or lack thereof) impacted the outcome.
 
 
Part 2: Developing Emotional Intelligence for Disciple Makers
1. Recap
Briefly recap the key points
2. Deep Dive: How to Develop Emotional Intelligence
Self-awareness and Self-control:
James 1:19 –
Practice slowing down our reactions and reflecting before responding. Teach that self-awareness is about recognizing triggers and the emotions behind them.
Learn to listen WELL.
Psalm 139:23-24 –
Develop self-awareness through prayer, asking God to reveal any emotional blind spots.
Self-control through Scripture:
Galatians 5:22-23 –
Spiritual growth is the foundation of developing emotional intelligence.
These virtues align with the emotional self-control we need as Christians. Developing the fruit of the Spirit is key to emotional stability.
Empathy:
Romans 12:15 –
Empathy requires actively engaging with others’ emotions, whether in joy or sorrow.
Philippians 2:4 –
Developing empathy requires intentionality—seeing and caring about others deeply.
Pause and ask yourself about the emotional state of other people. Consider WHY they feel they way they do. Seek Understanding.
Social Skills:
Colossians 3:12-14 –
Social skills are rooted in humility and kindness, and effective communication flows out of a heart that is filled with love. Listen to understand!
Spend time with people. Look for opportunities to develop deep and lasting relationships. Put their interests first!
Practical Strategies for Developing EI:
Daily Reflection and Prayer: Incorporate a time of self-reflection each day to assess your emotional responses and ask the Holy Spirit for help.
Consider journaling your thoughts and addressing the way you responded to people throughout the day. Ask yourself if you could have responded in a way that better exhibits the fruit of the spirit.
Active Listening: Practice listening without responding immediately, making sure to validate the emotions of others. Learn to ask clarifying questions.
Accountability Partnerships: Form small groups or one-on-one accountability relationships to help one another grow in emotional maturity.
 
 
Doctrine of the Month
 
The Gospel and Ongoing Disciple Making
 
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May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
 

How's Your Confidence?

rwh29march -Ep.357 – Run With Horses Podcast – A Confident Disciple of Jesus
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Confidence
 
I. Intro
- A. Definition of Confidence
- Confidence as trust or belief in God's work through us, not in our own abilities.
 
- B. Importance of Confidence for a Follower of Jesus
- Empowers boldness in sharing the gospel and teaching God’s Word.
- Provides strength to guide others in their spiritual growth.
 
II. The Foundation of Confidence: Trusting in God’s Strength
- A. Confidence in God’s Power, Not Ourselves
- Philippians 4:13
2 Corinthians 3:5
 
- B. The Role of the Holy Spirit
Acts 1:8
 
III. Confidence in the Word of God: The Source of Authority
- A. The Transformative Power of God’s Word
Isaiah 55:11
- B. Trusting God’s Promises in Discipleship
Matthew 28:18-20
 
2 Timothy 2:2
IV. Confidence in the Face of Challenges
- A. Overcoming Trials with God’s Confidence
Romans 8:37
 
- B. Assurance of God’s Presence and Support
Joshua 1:9
Matthew 28:20
 
V. Confidence in God’s Plan: Trusting in His Sovereignty
- A. Belief in God’s Control and Purpose
Romans 8:28
- B. Confidence in Discipleship Outcomes
1 Corinthians 3:6-7
 
VI. Confidence in Our Identity in Christ
- A. Knowing Our Identity in Christ
Ephesians 2:10
 
- B. Confidence in Our Calling as Disciple Makers
2 Corinthians 5:20
1 Peter 2:9
Developing Confidence
 
I. Building Confidence in God
 
A. Strengthening Your Relationship Through Prayer
 
- Regular prayer as a means to invite God into daily life.
 
- Philippians 4:6-7
- 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
 
B. Studying the Bible
 
- Deepening understanding of God's character and promises.
 
- 2 Timothy 3:16-17
 
- Psalm 119:105
 
C. Reflecting on Past Experiences
 
- Recognizing God’s past provisions to build future confidence.
 
- Deuteronomy 8:2
 
- Psalm 77:11-12
 
D. Surrounding Yourself with a Supportive Community
 
- Sharing experiences and receiving encouragement from others.
 
- Hebrews 10:24-25
 
- Proverbs 27:17
 
E. Trusting God's Timing
 
- Learning to trust in God’s perfect plan.
 
- Ecclesiastes 3:1
 
- Isaiah 40:31
 
F. Worship and Praise
 
- Focusing on God’s greatness and faithfulness.
 
- Psalm 95:1-2: "Oh come, let us sing to the Lord! Let us shout joyfully to the Rock of our salvation. Let us come before His presence with thanksgiving; Let us shout joyfully to Him with psalms."
 
- Psalm 100:4-5
 
G. Living Out Your Faith
 
- Acting on God’s Word to strengthen faith.
 
- James 1:22
 
- Matthew 5:16
 
H. Learning from the Faith of Others
 
- Drawing inspiration from biblical stories and testimonies of believers.
 
- Hebrews 12:1
 
- Romans 15:4
 
These verses can serve as a foundation for building confidence in God through various aspects of faith and practice.
 
Find confidence in God’s power, promises, and presence.
 
2 Timothy 1:7
 
 
Doctrine of the Month
Community and the Spiritual Growth of a Christian
 
-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.
May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
 

How well do you know yourself?

rwh22march -Ep.356 – Run With Horses Podcast – How well do you know yourself?
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What is self-awareness? According to the Oxford Dictionary:
conscious knowledge of one's own character, feelings, motives, and desires.
Character:
Feelings:
Motives:
Desires:
Have you ever stopped to truly reflect on how you see yourself and how that compares to how God sees you?
Self-awareness is vital for spiritual growth and understanding God’s will for our lives. It’s actually pretty important as a human traveling through life with other humans! There is often a tension between how we see ourselves, how others see us and how God sees us.
II. What is Self-Awareness from a Biblical Worldview?
Definition of Self-Awareness:
The ability to see and acknowledge one’s thoughts, feelings, actions, and motivations in the light of God’s truth.
Understanding our identity in Christ, our strengths, weaknesses, and the call God has on our lives.
Scriptural Foundation:
Psalm 139:23-24:
 
Romans 12:3:
Self-awareness requires humility, recognizing both our value in Christ and the need for personal growth. We often focus on how we compare to those around us rather than to Jesus and who He calls us to be. Pride is easy when we look at others, humility is easy when we focus on Jesus.
III. How Can We Become More Self-Aware?
Daily Reflection and Prayer:
James 1:5:
 
Engage with Scripture:
Hebrews 4:12:
 
Seek Accountability and Fellowship:
Proverbs 27:17:
 
Practicing Confession and Repentance:
1 John 1:9:
IV. Why Is Self-Awareness Important According to Scripture?
For Personal Growth in Christlikeness:
2 Corinthians 13:5:
 
Philippians 3:12-14:
 
For Serving Others with Humility:
Philippians 2:3-4:
 
For Glorifying God:
1 Corinthians 10:31
Doctrine of the Month
 
Understanding Theology, is crucial for discipleship because it shapes how we relate to God and others, guiding our lives and actions towards imitating Christ.
 
May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."
 

Live Like Eternity Matters

Ep.355 – Run With Horses Podcast – Live Like Eternity Matters
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1.The Reality of Eternity
The Promise of Eternal Life
Why Eternity Matters
2. Eternal Perspective: Shaping Our View of Life
Eternal Perspective on Temporal Life
Living with an Eternal Purpose
3. Life in Light of Eternity: Practical Application
Prioritizing God's Kingdom Over Earthly Concerns
Investing in the Eternal: The Rewards of Faithful Service
Living a Holy Life in View of Eternity
4. Eternal Relationships: Sharing the Gospel and Building God's Kingdom
The Call to Evangelize and Make Disciples
Investing in People for Eternal Impact
5. Eternal Hope: Encouragement for Perseverance
The Assurance of Eternal Life
The Comfort of the Future Life
6. Living in Hope and Obedience
A Call to Live in View of Eternity
The Motivation to Live for Christ Today
7. Eternal Life Changes Everything
Every moment counts in light of eternity. Make choices that reflect the reality of eternal life, live with purpose, share the gospel, and find your hope in God’s promises. Evaluate their life regularly, look to live in ways that honor God and reflect His eternal purposes.
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Doctrine Focus
End Times

Resisting Temptation

rwh08march -Ep.354 – Run With Horses Podcast – Resisting Temptation
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Resisting Temptation: A Biblical Approach to Overcoming Sin
How Temptation Works
Temptation works through a process that often involves desire, opportunity, and choice. It’s important to understand how it operates in order to resist it effectively. Below is a breakdown of how temptation works, from a Biblical perspective:
1. Temptation Begins with Desire
2. Temptation Entices
3. Temptation Presents a Choice
4. Temptation Leads to Sin
5. Temptation’s Full Outcome: Death and Destruction
How Temptation Works in Our Lives
In summary, temptation works through the following stages:
Desire: Temptation begins with internal cravings or desires for things outside of God's will.
Enticement: Temptation presents those desires as appealing and promises fulfillment.
Choice: The individual faces a decision on whether to act on the desire or to resist it.
Sin: Yielding to temptation results in sin and disobedience to God.
Consequences: The end result of sin is death and separation from God.
Prayer: Seeking God’s Strength
Scripture: Meditating on God’s Word
Accountability: Strengthening Each Other
Avoiding Triggers: Preventing Temptation
The Holy Spirit: Power to Overcome Temptation
Fasting: Strengthening the Spirit
Focusing on Eternal Rewards
Doctrine of the Month
The Holy Spirit’s Role in Disciple Making.