Balancing Self-Reliance and Interdependence

rwh19april Ep.360 – Run With Horses Podcast – Balancing Self-Reliance and Interdependence

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Do you go it alone or do you walk through life with others? It’s not an either/ or proposition, it’s both! There are areas where you definitely have to pull you own weight but often, much more often than you may think, we are supposed to help each other through life. Today, we are thinking about self-reliance and interdependence for disciples of Jesus.

Welcome to Run With Horses! My name is Norman and my goal is to help you thrive as a follower of Jesus. The spiritual life is simple in many ways, but potentially the most difficult part of your life. God invites you to grow, to live intentionally and to join in His mission. It’s very cool that we can do that together!

Thank you for joining me today! “If you’re new here, you can check out past episodes at runwithhorses.net. As always, I appreciate your feedback, questions, and reviews!”

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B. Overview

• Scripture calls believers to cultivate personal accountability (self-reliance) while actively engaging in a community of faith (interdependence).

• Key Themes:

  • Biblical foundations for self-reliance in areas like personal spiritual growth, work, and stewardship.

  • Scriptural mandates for living in community, bearing one another’s burdens, and using spiritual gifts for the common good.

C. Context

• Emphasize believer’s individual responsibility before God.

• Highlight the importance of local church fellowship as a way of fulfilling our mission together.

D. Today I want you to consider:

1. What does “self-reliance” mean in your personal walk with Christ?

2. How do you see interdependence playing a role in your local church or community?

II. Self-Reliance in the Christian Life

A. Definition and Biblical Context

• Self-reliance: Cultivating personal responsibility in one’s faith, work, finances, and spiritual growth, recognizing that while God provides strength, He also calls us to be diligent stewards of our lives.

B. Passages on Self-Reliance

1. Proverbs 6:6-8 (NKJV):

   • “Go to the ant, you sluggard;
     Consider her ways, and be wise.
     Which having no guide, overseer, or ruler,
     Provideth her supplies in the summer,
     And gathers her food in the harvest.”

     Encourage proactive effort and preparedness in everyday life.

     In what areas of your life can you emulate the ant’s industriousness?

2. Galatians 6:4-5 (NKJV):

   • “But let each one examine his own work, and then he shall have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. For each one shall bear his own load.”

     Highlight the importance of personal evaluation and responsibility.

     How can you take ownership of your spiritual growth while avoiding pride?

3. Philippians 4:13 (NKJV):

   • “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

     Emphasize that personal achievement is rooted in Christ’s strength working through us.

     How does relying on Christ’s strength change your approach to personal challenges?

C. Practical Steps

• Self-Examination: Encourage daily devotional practices and self-reflection.

  How are you taking responsibility for your life now? What practical actions show that you are serious about your spiritual life and responsibilities before God?

• Personal Responsibility: Discuss setting goals in prayer, work, and study.

  Where do you need to be more proactive? Are the basics covered? Are you seeking out ways to intentionally pursue godliness in your life? How, Where, When? Is it on your calendar and in your budget?

• Stewardship: Explore biblical principles of managing finances, time, and talents responsibly.

  Do you recognize the accountability that you have before God in the decisions you make? What does that look like?

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III. Interdependence in the Body of Christ

A. Definition and Biblical Context

• Interdependence: Recognizing that while believers are called to personal responsibility, they are also part of a larger, unified body where mutual support, accountability, and service are essential.

B. Passages on Interdependence

1. 1 Corinthians 12:12-27 (NKJV):

   • “For as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of that one body, being many, are one body, so also is Christ...”

     Illustrate how each believer has a unique role that contributes to the health of the whole body.

     Which “spiritual gifts” do you see in your life that benefit the community, and how can you serve more effectively?

     Where and how are you living out this ‘Body Life’ of the church? Sunday morning worship service is NOT enough. Are you intentionally seeking fellowship and investing in the life of your church family. Are you inviting them into your life?

     Small groups, one on one meetings, microchurch gatherings in public and homes.

2. Galatians 6:2 (NKJV):

   • “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”

     Stress the call to support one another in times of difficulty.

     How have you experienced God’s provision through the help of others? How can you extend that help?

3. Ephesians 4:15-16 (NKJV):

   • “But, speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ. From whom the whole body, joined and knit together by every joint with which it is equipped, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love.”

     Emphasize mutual edification and the organic growth of the church as a family of believers.

   • In what ways can you contribute to the spiritual growth of your church family?

     Intentionality is Key.

C. Application and Practical Steps

• Fellowship and Community: Discuss the importance of small groups, church ministries, and accountability partnerships. Doesn’t happen accidently.

• Serving Others: Outline practical opportunities for service in the local community and the global church. Local church, neighbor church, etc.

IV. Integrating Self-Reliance and Interdependence

Recognizing the Balance

• Christians are called to be proactive and responsible stewards of their own lives (self-reliance) while also fully engaging in the support system provided by the Church (interdependence).

• James 2:14-17 (NKJV):

  • “What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? … Thus faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.”

    Faith must be expressed both individually and collectively.

    How does your personal faith inspire you to serve the community, and in turn, how does community service strengthen your personal walk with Christ?

• How do you maintain personal discipline while remaining open to community guidance?

• “In what specific ways will you take responsibility for your personal growth this week, and how will you actively engage with your faith community?”

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Doctrine Today

Jesus and His Present Ministry

The Holy Spirit’s Role in Disciple Making.

Dispensational Baptist view of the End Times

Understanding Theology is Important

The Gospel and Ongoing Disciple Making

Church Role in Discerning God’s Will

Barriers to Disciple Making

1. Lack of Intentionality

• Unclear Vision:
  Often, churches and individual believers may not have a clear, intentional vision or plan for disciple making. Without concrete goals, training, and accountability measures, disciple making can become an incidental outcome rather than a strategic priority.

• Scriptural Neglect:
  Some ministries may focus heavily on evangelism while underemphasizing the lifelong process of nurturing, teaching, and mentoring new believers. This disconnect from the biblical mandate (e.g., Matthew 28:19-20) can lead to a superficial understanding of discipleship.

2. Cultural Individualism

• Self-Reliance Over Community:
  Modern Western culture often emphasizes personal autonomy and self-reliance, which can contrast sharply with the biblical call to community (1 Corinthians 12:12-27). This individualism makes it more challenging to create environments where believers willingly submit to accountability, mentoring, and mutual growth.

• Reluctance to Invest in Others:
  The desire for personal achievement and success may lead some to undervalue the long-term commitment required to disciple others, rather than focusing on immediate personal benefits or social status.

3. Time Constraints and Busyness

• Competing Priorities:
  In today’s fast-paced society, individuals often struggle to balance work, family, and ministry responsibilities. This busyness can leave little room for the deep, personal interactions required for disciple making.

• Over-Scheduled Lives:
  Constant digital engagement and overloaded schedules can lead to shallow relationships that lack the depth needed for transformative discipleship.

4. Lack of Effective Leadership and Training

• Insufficient Leadership Development:
  Effective discipleship requires mentors who are themselves mature in their faith and skilled in relational dynamics. A shortage of trained leaders who can intentionally mentor others is a significant barrier.

• Inadequate Resources:
  Churches may not invest adequately in training programs or create robust systems for leadership development, resulting in missed opportunities to equip believers for disciple making.

5. Digital Distractions and Superficial Engagement

• Impact of Technology:
  While digital media offers innovative outreach tools, the overreliance on online interactions can lead to more shallow, transactional relationships that lack the depth and accountability found in face-to-face mentoring.

• Social Media Culture:
  Constant engagement with social media may foster a culture of immediacy and quick approval, which can detract from the slow, formative process of true disciple making.

6. Fear of Judgment and Vulnerability

• Relational Barriers:
  Discipleship involves vulnerability and accountability. Many believers may be reluctant to share their struggles or admit weaknesses due to the fear of judgment or rejection by peers.

• Cultural Stigma:
  In both church settings and the broader society, there can be stigma associated with showing vulnerability, leading individuals to hide their need for growth rather than seeking relational support.

7. Theological Misunderstandings

• Misconceptions About Grace and Works:
  Some may mistakenly view discipleship as a checklist of rules or a set of actions rather than a transformative process fueled by the Holy Spirit. This can lead to legalism on one end or laxity on the other.

• Lack of Depth:
  Without a robust, well-balanced teaching on both grace and discipline, believers can misunderstand the essence of discipleship, which involves both receiving God’s unmerited favor and engaging in the process of sanctification.

8. Resource Limitations and Institutional Challenges

• Financial and Infrastructural Constraints:
  Smaller churches or those in economically challenged areas might lack the resources to create comprehensive discipleship programs. Budget constraints, limited venues for small groups, or lack of access to quality teaching materials can impact effectiveness.

• Institutional Resistance:
  Sometimes, long-standing institutional practices can resist change, making it difficult to adapt or innovate new methods for effective disciple making.

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As we follow Jesus there is a need to do our part and help others along the way. Engaging in the life of the church family often benefits you more than you expect, in ways that you don’t expect. The Body of Christ, when operating as it should helps you to grow and gives you opportunities to invest in helping others to grow. Your gifts are needed just as you need the gifts of others.

 

– “Thank you for listening today!

-If you enjoyed the show you can listen to all the past shows wherever you listen to podcasts. A good place to start is at runwithhorses.net. You can also write me at norman@runwithhorses.net or leave a comment on the Run With Horses Podcast facebook page.

May we all be found faithful, ready, and living for eternity. Until next time, keep your eyes on Jesus and never stop running."

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